What do you have to go through to achieve enlightenment?

Because in a partnership company, I don't participate in the management of the company, so I have more time. Then, I started to think about this kind of question, what do I have to go through before I can realize it?

After that, I found that if I want to be enlightened, I must first have a prerequisite, that is, if the conditions are average, I have to get married early. This is not difficult to understand, when you are in your twenties, your family and relatives will begin to urge you to get married, and some people who have special views on marriage will persuade you to get married later. But no one should tell you that if your conditions are very average, and you don't have any chance of making a lot of money in this life, like ordinary office workers, then you should get married early, otherwise the older you get, the money you don't earn, and your family doesn't work, and then your choices will become fewer and fewer.

Secondly, it is necessary to observe what the rich people around you do, I believe you will find that they have a common characteristic, that is, they know that this person is not good, but he just does not remind, does not instruct, and is not even good as a teacher, even if his cognition and experience are more than the other party, he will not give any advice to the other party.

You know why not? Because, whether it is pointing or preaching, it needs to consume energy. Moreover, it is also necessary to consume energy for "people who can listen to themselves" to consume energy, and for "people who can't listen to themselves", you say 10,000 words on deaf ears.

The behavior with the lowest emotional intelligence is to constantly reason with others.

The excuse of a wise man can wake up a smart person, but the excuse of a fool can only point out the country.

What can convince a person is never the truth, but the south wall; What can wake up a person is never preaching, but suffering.

Another is to suggest that all timid young people of the same age repeatedly read the sentence "everyone's opinions and evaluations are temporary, only their own experiences and achievements are with a lifetime", almost all worries and fears come from their own imagination, only if you really do the real thing, you will find out how happy it is.

The person who takes you to make money, the person who asks you to study, the person who talks to you about life, the person who talks to you about your ideals, the person who cheers you on everywhere, and the person who hopes that you will get better and better, this is the noble person you should get along with the most.

deliberately reprimanded you when there are many people, it is for others to see, you must not take it to heart, he is a villain. Scold you when no one is around, and the person who has a heart to you, remember that he is your nobleman.

Another is a girl's life, in fact, the most important thing to learn is not to make money, nor to dress yourself, but no matter how much wind and rain you encounter, you yourself have the ability to make yourself happy.

You can't help it, sometimes you have to rely on luck when you choose marriage, and the only thing that can make you live a good life is to have the ability to adjust your emotions. If you have the love of your parents and the company of your loved ones, then don't make a fuss and cherish it; If the family affection is weak and the people are unladylike, then live for yourself, life is already so bitter, and there is no need to let yourself be depressed.

The farther you go, the more you see, and the closer you go, the less you see. The more people you know, the more you can realize that there are only a few people who care about you the most in this life. Just a few people, that is, your whole world. It is enough for a person to meet a few people who treat each other sincerely.

In this world, there are many things that make you feel new, but there are few people who can make you feel at ease. In this blue planet, there are a sea of people, we can meet, meet, and accompany each other, which can be regarded as fate, or to say a little more powerful, it is the most miraculous thing you have encountered in your life, and you must really cherish these sincere people.

Finally, please let go of the helping complex, respect the fate of others, there are old people in the village who can live to be more than 90 years old, the biggest reason is not to meddle in things.

The mud is rotten, you have to help others on the wall; The salted fish is lying well, you have to turn it over for others; A piece of rotten wood that rots to the bones, you have to carve someone into a handicraft or ornament.

Restrain yourself to correct other people's desires, don't arbitrarily intervene in the cause and effect of others, the rules of the game in society, layers of difficulty and cost, are locked up by different people, layer by layer to have such a sentence handed down, adults are finally screened out, how much money can you make, not time, it is others in society who screen you out of the crowd, never complain about your own moment, the sign of a person's maturity is to turn the resentment of "why did this happen to you" into " What did this teach me behind the scenes?"

When you think about the problem from a different angle, you will find that everything is the best arrangement, may we all shine in the small world we love, and flash the universe in the warm big world!