2023/11/12 Where there are good times, there will be bad times
Good times and bad times have always been buddies, not between lovers and partners.
Why? Because when a person is new to this society, it is unlikely that it will be smooth sailing, either the boss makes it difficult for you, or the old employee excludes you, or you are disgusted that your work efficiency is too slow, about the adversity in the workplace, everyone understands it, so I don't need to say more, right?
So what do I mean when I say they're buddies? When you have experienced adversity, you have also become familiar with the company's leaders, through your work ability, you have also got the sincere smiles of your colleagues, and even shared some snacks with you, which is already the most desired good situation for ordinary office workers.
Therefore, they are buddies, not lovers or partners. This world is the reincarnation of the Heavenly Dao, the sun and the moon cycle repeatedly, and there has never been a time when the whole day is day or the whole day is dark, and this is the essence of the rules of this world.
So, whether it's good or bad, it's an inevitable part of our lives. We can't hope to be in good times all the time just because we like good times, and we can't hope that bad times never happen because we hate them. Adversity is a catalyst for our growth, it makes us stronger, more mature, and makes us understand the true meaning of life. The good times are the goal we strive for, which makes us feel the beauty of life and makes us more confident to face the challenges of the future. Like the alternation of day and night, good times and bad times are interdependent. There is no night without day, and there is no day without night. They are balanced with each other, and without any of them, the world is incomplete.
If you are in a very good situation, then I, as a "senior" who has already gone ashore, I suggest that you must not swell, you are easy to make big mistakes, and you are also easy to step on the pit that allows you to return to adversity. Why? Because people who have just arrived in the good times have always been very ignorant, and this level is completely different from what you imagined, so I hope that more people who have been successful will eventually go ashore and become the pinnacle of their own good times. In the same way, adversity is not the end of eternity.
In the face of adversity, we may encounter many difficulties and challenges, but it is also an opportunity for us to grow and learn. Through adversity, we can better understand ourselves, discover our shortcomings, and learn ways to cope with difficulties. Adversity is not the end, but a new beginning.
When we come out of adversity, we emerge stronger and more mature. We are no longer the ones who are easily hit and frustrated, but have learned how to find opportunities in difficulties and how to find our value in challenges.
Therefore, good times and bad times are not two opposing concepts. They are like a mirror that reflects our strengths and weaknesses, allowing us to better understand ourselves and grow and develop better. Whether in good times or bad, we need to keep a cool and clear head in order to better cope with various challenges and changes.
In closing, I would like to say that whether you are in good times or bad right now, don't give up on your dreams and pursuits. Only by persevering and working hard can we realize our own value and achieve our dreams. Let's meet the challenges and opportunities of the future together and become a better version of ourselves.