I don't know all book friends, who has paid attention to the details on the dinner?

Every detail and everything on the dinner will make you make friends with your nobles at the table.

I've had a treat before, I've had my eldest brother and second brother who have been married to me, but they are both younger than me, and the reason why they are ahead of me is because they have something in them that I don't have, and I have something in them that they don't have.

At that time, they may have been young and inexperienced, so I took them to a noodle restaurant, and they ate so fast, and before I finished eating, these two guys had already finished eating, and they were watching me eat on the table, which made me very embarrassed. But everyone is buddies, and I'm embarrassed to break them, don't eat so quickly. Especially in the future, at the dinner table, you can't eat fast, you can skip eating, or even eat a little, but you just can't eat fast.

Because, the food served at the dinner itself is not important, the important thing is whether you can learn something at this dinner and even make friends with your nobles? But they didn't seem to understand, and felt that when I invited them to dinner at that time, I just ate and didn't even say a word, so that the purpose of my invitation was completely out of time. Well, if they both think so, I, as the third child, will not be able to continue to treat in the back.

After stepping into society, I instead had a certain connection with my second brother because of a deep friendship, and parted ways with my eldest brother because of a woman I knew together. I can't say that I completely broke off my relationship with my eldest brother because of this woman, but the meaning is similar, and I haven't been in touch for many years. I don't know if they reflected on that dinner, but now it seems that my invitation also saw that they really regarded the dinner as a "meal" game.

What is the nature of a meal? What does it mean that the nature of the meal is to sit down and sit before eating?

When the food has not yet come up, you must rely on the dining table farther away, you don't want the food to come up, just lie on the table, very close to the table is a sign of rudeness.

After the food is served, it is necessary to be closer to the table, this is the rule, and whether you can leave a good impression on others depends on these small details.

The guest has not eaten all, and the Lord does not stop eating.

The guests haven't finished eating, but you're full, is that like a word? Is it polite to flick the chopsticks and stop eating? Moreover, the host must not say, "Oh, I'm full", and the people in the back are not full, so they will think that this is what it means not to add vegetables? It's over, there's no next round.

With chopsticks in hand, I am full of praise.

Chopsticks, as soon as you pick them up, you have to start praising them. For example: who ordered this dish, it is delicious; Oops, who picked the place for our restaurant today? It's been a long time since I've eaten something so authentic.

Will the master be happy when he hears these words? Is the speech for the master? I'm sure I'm going to be happy!

Eat to the beginning, serve the guests, let the food not spit.

What does that mean? If the people in the restaurant serve the food, if the etiquette standard is high enough, you can stand up; If a new guest comes to the table and you want to show a lot of respect, you can also stand up.

Have you noticed that when you go to a dinner without any rules, a newcomer comes, and everyone is sitting here. However, when you get to the regular dinner, you will find that there is a new person, everyone will stand up, welcome the new person, add a chair and chopsticks to eat with you, and even someone will help to work together. Therefore, you can tell at a glance whether the level of the meal is high or not.

What does it mean to eat without spitting? It's a very good dish, I clip a piece for you, and lick the tip of my chopsticks, so I asked you if you have encountered such a situation? Moreover, he doesn't use chopsticks for you at all, or he uses his own chopsticks, and after eating there, he wants to share what he thinks is a good dish with others.

Some restaurants don't have chopsticks, what would you do in this situation? If there are no chopsticks in this restaurant, there are your chopsticks, spoons and bowls, chopsticks are your chopsticks, and the spoon is your eating tool. Do you understand this? Use your chopsticks as chopsticks, but you can't use your own chopsticks to pick up the food for yourself when you eat, you have to use that spoon to pull the vegetables. If you come across a dish that you can't hold up with a spoon, ask if you have to eat it, or can you pack it properly and take it home to eat? If you can't pack this dish because of the special meal, then ask the kitchen to make a separate one for you to eat at home, do you think it's appropriate to deal with it?

Don't eat enough, don't smack your lips.

The dinner must not be full, my treat was that they both ate very fast, and when they were full, they left me to continue to eat. This is a big taboo in the dinner, at that time they were young, I can forgive them, but if there is still such a thing when stepping into the society, then I don't need to educate him, and other people in the dinner party will also beat him, but this person who is full in advance will never serve it again.

If you don't have a full meal, you can go to any supper restaurant after the meal to have a full meal, not let you go home and sleep when you are full of food in this dinner. Even if he goes home to sleep when he is full, then he must be Party A's father, not Party B's children.

Socializing outside is socializing, don't end up eating a crooked belly, today's meal is really delicious. When you do this, you not only make a bad impression on others, but you even lose your own identity and status. Even if you're really full, you can't show it, and that's what you can't do.

The mouth is not satisfied, and the food is not sighed.

What does that mean? Be sure not to eat in large gulps, your mouth is full. Because the meal is delicious, is it okay? No, because once you do that, your status will fall from the minds of others. Also, when eating, you can't sigh, these are the etiquette at the dinner table.

Don't ask, don't say first.

If you go to someone else's dinner and the host doesn't ask you, don't open your mouth to speak, don't be in a hurry to express yourself, don't be in a hurry to show yourself.

When it's your turn to speak, thank you host, thank you friends, don't stand up and do business.

What happens when you stand up and do business? As long as you stand up and talk about business, you will have nothing to do with the cattle of this dinner today.

Because, everyone knows what you're here for, and then it's just to listen and bow your head.

When someone comes to talk to you, they want to say a few words to you, do you want to listen with your head up or with your head down?

Whether you're sitting or standing, someone has to come and talk to you, lean forward, and get close to the person so that they will be willing to talk to you and you can hear what they're saying.

Stand upright, not arrogant.

That is, when you stand up, when you speak, you must be serious, not crooked. Someone will tilt his head and come over to toast, then this wine, you can't drink it, because he doesn't respect you. And whatever he says is nonsense, and you won't want to listen to it. When you eat, others are observing you, and you have to observe others as well.

Don't eat bones, don't care about confusion.

If you have bones in this meal and something that is very troublesome to eat, can you skip it? Why?

Because it's a very greasy thing to eat with it, you can avoid it because you don't have to eat this bone or something very troublesome.

What does it mean to be disregarded? It's yours to eat this dish, and it's all delicious.

Ladies and gentlemen, go and see, those who know how to eat, any dish or any plate of meat, the last piece left, no one will pick it up. Then, you will find that there is always one who can't open his eyes, and finally eats this piece of meat. Why? The person who killed the last piece of meat must be the most eye-catching person at this table!

The elders respect you, and you must bow down. If it's a leader, an elder, the person who organized this dinner today, and someone came to toast you, you must bow down. Including when others toast you, your cup must be lower than his cup, and when you touch it at the end, hold someone's cup, remind others, and touch it gently.

Therefore, every demeanor at the dinner table is a detail that we must learn.

The dinner must not be a channel for you to monetize, but a channel for you to make others like it, and this is the meaning of the dinner.