Which is more important, spending time with children or making money?

The most ideal answer must be that if you don't have money, don't have children, and wait for money to regenerate, but there is often no ideal in life, only reality.

Therefore, my advice is that making money is the most important thing.

You think, you are in your Chinese New Year's Eve this year, you have never seen your father, and suddenly one day a listing boss came to you and said to you, "Child, I am your father, I was too busy back then, and now I will make up for you." ”

Excuse me, do you recognize this father? Do you love him or not? Give you 100 million, let you open a company or play by yourself, whatever, it is consumption. Will you regret your childhood without your father by your side? You won't regret it, because you feel that all the sacrifices are worth it.

Therefore, it is not the choice of making money and companionship, but neither companionship nor making money, this is the reality that most of us face, but there is only one time in life, in the face of such a game, you know that you will not be able to make money if you give up companionship, do you want to accept it calmly? And then go to the peace of mind company? Actually, it's okay, as long as you don't be unwilling when you dream back at midnight.

I've seen a lot of old people, just mediocre all their lives, their favorite thing to talk about is, I would have done so-and-so (thing) back then, but I can't let go of the people at home, so I don't have money now. I've also seen a lot of bosses who, at the moment of serious illness, say, "Oh, I was so busy back then, I did my best for the company, if only I could spend more time with my family." ”

So, whatever you choose in life is wrong, and whatever you choose is right. You can only be firm in your choice and accept the price of your choice, and the whole set of gains and losses is your life.

There are many choices, but no matter which one you choose, don't regret it, and don't grind in this life. The path you choose has to go down on your knees.

If you choose to start a business, as long as you have the idea of commuting to work on time, you will definitely fail, as long as you have the idea of balancing family and career, you will definitely fail.

When I was on the rise in my career, my ex-girlfriend would get angry when she said something like "I miss you." I would tell her, "I'm on the rise in my career, and if you don't tell me about these things about my children's relationship, it will affect me a lot." "So, this matter is very cruel, and we have to concentrate on solving the main contradiction.

Therefore, in the early stage of starting a business, you can only do business, not manage your family. Career and family are not balanced, and when your career is done, you will naturally be able to take care of your family.

What do you think you would have said before? Su Qin Six Kingdoms hung the seal, but when he didn't hang the seal, could his brother and sister-in-law understand him? When you first started your career, you didn't make any money, so it was difficult for your family to understand you.

The first and most painful level of entrepreneurship is to break family affection and love, and live in your own goals to the extreme.

Of course, life is also divided into stages, and the stage of completing accumulation can only grasp the main contradiction, and the others must be let go first.

If a person tells you that I am going back to my family, that I am going to take care of my children, you know that his career will definitely not succeed, and this is called one punch to open up, so as not to be a hundred punches.

In fact, what is the time difference between what you do? That is, you have to bet that your parents, your family, and your relatives will not have any major illnesses and will not hold you back when you are able to play. I've seen a lot of people whose careers are on the rise, and suddenly there is a major change in their family, and they can't do things anymore, which is one thing that many people later believe, everything is fate, and nothing can be done.

So, why is it hard to start a business? Why is it so painful?

It requires you to have your own mental construction, and it also requires you to have a little bit of luck, and this luck is your life.