The dinner arranged by the leader, are you going or not?

In the shopping mall, you will see a lot of this kind of bureau, and some leaders will say to their subordinates, you call a few more Yan'er, and come together for a long time.

You've all heard of that, right? Whenever a company recruits a front desk, whether it is an administrative front desk or not, male colleagues will discuss whether this front desk beauty is very beautiful, and the manpower will also make a joke at the right time and say, "I'll give you some benefits, how are the brothers going to invite me?" This kind of words, everyone often hears in the workplace, please don't invite him is naturally a joke, not worth mentioning, in fact, in this world, behind every joke there is a sadness.

Now, what is the logic of many businesses?

Regard male employees as the "main force" and female employees as "welfare", and think carefully about it is probably the core. Of course, our company treats employees differently, because it is a cosmetics company, there will be more female employees, and only a few male employees will occasionally sit in the office, and most of the male employees will do business outside.

It can be seen that it is really not easy for women. The reality is also very unfair to girls, and it can also be seen that people can only be independent when they are financially independent. But what about girls? Society always asks them to "give up" one kind of independence before they can gain another.

Take a certain dinner party as an example, many companies will pull female employees as foils, mainly to adjust the atmosphere, but also to show the company's "strength". This practice seems to be for the development of the company, but in fact it is a kind of gender discrimination, using female employees as "tools".

This situation does not only exist in dinners, but also occurs in many companies. Even in some seemingly formal situations, this situation is unavoidable. For example, in some business dinners or KTVs, leaders will arrange for female employees to sit next to them, while male employees are arranged at another table. This practice is not only uncomfortable, but also discriminated against. The root of this phenomenon lies in the traditional belief that women can only play a "decorative" role in their work, but cannot really create value for the company.

This notion is not only backward, but also harmful. In modern society, women are playing an increasingly important role in the workplace, and their contributions should not be overlooked or underestimated. Therefore, we should abandon this misconception and respect the status and role of women. Enterprises should give equal opportunities and treatment to both male and female employees, so that they can realize their strengths and potential. Only in this way will we be able to build a more equal and just society.

I'm not saying that all girls have to socialize, but the reality is so cruel, I saw with my own eyes how Lu always became his current partner step by step, she does have her own set of offices, and she is also very good. As long as I finish the work at hand, every time I go to her office, the deer will always stuff me with all kinds of gold bars or some jade plaques or something, I didn't know much about these things at the time, but I know that this is all given to her, and she is indeed better than me. People are only one year older than me, but they have always been single, and some people in the company will say that she chose not to marry for life because Lao Pan was married, in fact, she didn't like Pan Dong at all, and she didn't have any intimate actions with him, let alone the girl Pan Dong liked to take out to socialize at that time. Mr. Lu has no children so far, which means that her scenery must have a price, but people don't say what price she paid, and she can't just figure it out.

You say, who doesn't feel a little sad when they read this chapter in the middle of the night? Therefore, people's choices are indeed understandable, but if you have a little business, there is such a small income, you must not forget your roots, you must have the guidance of the master behind your family business. Because, there are too many hidden contributions from girls, thank you to every great girl in the new era!