2023/11/28 Time recognizes people
Eighty percent of breakups are irretrievable, and if your partner already likes someone else of the opposite sex, then you are 100% irretrievable, and there is no need to even redeem it.
Let me tell you, the one who can really be redeemed is the one who won't let go of you easily, if you want to rely on a small composition to cry to coax the other party back, or even if you want to wait for the other party to find you by disconnecting, it's all useless.
Because, the pace of society is too fast now, and when you go out to a party, you will add a new person, or open any mobile phone software to meet a new person, look at photos, chat, and your emotions can be quickly transferred. You say, why are you still trying to get the other party back?
The person who can really be redeemed is definitely the person who is sincere to you, the person who also likes you, and the person who wants to solve the problem with you, so if you encounter a problem or quarrel, don't be afraid, solve the problem directly, don't deny it.
I send you a word, don't forget all the good of the other party at the moment of emotion, poke at each other full of thorns, just quarrel and say cruel words, but forget how you came from sweetness, you can build trust through temptation, and you can also prove that the other party loves you through small works, but don't use the question of principle to stimulate the other party, and tell the other party if you don't love.
If the people who want to play with you, or the people who just want to play with you, will not choose you firmly, they are even very selfish. I broke up with you, no matter how sad and sad you are, everyone is next, you may still be thinking about whether others really like you, you put others at ease, others have been put into each other's hearts. So, do you salvage a yarn?
If you can't let it go, you can redeem it, boldly go to the other party, go crazy to find it, no matter what the result is, don't let yourself regret it.
When you really can't get back someone who doesn't love you, then don't force any relationship, even if you care a lot, I cherish those who cherish me, and I abandon those who dislike me.
Time is a good thing, it verifies people's hearts and witnesses human nature, you don't have to worry about who you will lose around you, remember to ask yourself, who is afraid of losing you?
You may lose someone who doesn't love you, but you have to believe that you deserve better. Don't despair because of the end of a relationship, everyone has their own story and experience. As you go through more, you will understand that there are people who come to your life just to teach you a lesson and then leave. And some people will always be with you through every journey of life. So don't worry about who you're going to lose, and remember to ask yourself who is afraid of losing you? In this fast-paced society, we are easily surrounded by all kinds of information and distractions, and it is difficult to stay focused and determined. When we encounter setbacks in our relationships, it is even easier to fall into confusion and confusion. However, we must learn to remain sober and strong in the face of difficulties.
If you've tried to redeem it, but it's not working, then you need to accept the reality. The other person has already made a decision, and all you need to do is respect that decision. Don't get entangled, don't harass the other person, and don't threaten or attack the other person. These actions will only make your image more negative and make the other person more disgusted with you.
Instead, you can try to look forward. You can look back at the problems in past relationships, find your own shortcomings and make changes. You can start a new journey, explore new areas, make new friends, and make yourself more fulfilling and charismatic.
Time heals everything, it's true. When you step out of the shadows of the past, you will find that a new life awaits you. You will meet new people, new opportunities and new challenges. You will have a new understanding and awareness of your life.
So, don't be afraid of losing. Sometimes losing is another way of getting. When you lose someone who doesn't love you, you may meet someone who is more of a good fit for you. When you lose an unhealthy relationship, you may experience a healthier and better relationship. What I would say is to believe in yourself no matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter. You have to believe that you have the ability to overcome them and achieve your dreams. You are unique and you are a valuable person. Don't give up on your dreams and beliefs easily.
Hope these words can be helpful to you. I wish you to get out of the predicament soon and find your own happiness.