People who can do things big are supported by countless grievances.

Let me tell you, I have suffered a lot of grievances, and I don't talk about the far, but the near.

My family doesn't understand that I'm a good manager, so why do I have to be an author who doesn't make money? It is almost difficult for there to be another Mo Yan or Lu Xun in the literary industry, and most of them are online literary workers such as house pigs, squid or Jiang Nan. Moreover, the literary industry is the most important thing to hone an author's basic skills and patience, and if you don't persist for more than ten years, you will basically be eliminated by this industry. Of course, there are also some lucky online writers, who have become popular overnight by writing cool articles or luck, and their works have also become popular, and they have instantly changed from an unknown author to the so-called platinum god.

I do this industry, and I actually have a lot of ideas about love, friendship and family affection.

And, of course, there is the book itself—to see the world in my own way, to experience whatever the society has brought to me, to describe some of the things I have experienced or some philosophical episodes in my own way. I hope that one day when I am old or have children, they will ask me what industry I used to work in, and I can proudly say that I used to be an online writer.

I want to be the master of my own works, I want to open my own online literature website, and by the way, I want to improve the aesthetics of book lovers. Because, now many books with good plots are drowned out by those brainless cool articles on the Internet. Even if there are really a few good books, without the support of the bigwigs in this circle, how much storm do you expect a small author to make a lot of waves? Besides, the book friends who read books in the future will inevitably be young friends of the second and third dimensions, so I will mainly open such literary websites to absorb more fresh blood. Let everyone buy their favorite book figurines in such a website, see their favorite books, and watch beautiful anime, TV series, movies or other derivatives after professional adaptation.

We welcome old book friends, and we welcome new book friends, mainly to mention everyone's aesthetics, but the author's own family concept is such a closed thinking.

My family thinks that I have to go to work in a unit to take the right path, and that I have to work for other bosses, which is the most promising way in their eyes. I've quarreled and moved, but their thinking is so backward that even if I have a thousand reasons, I can't reverse my family's obstacles. Therefore, I can only put away the edge for the time being and wait for the moment when it really shines!

Do you know what is the happiest thing about you in this world? It's that you understand your family, and when you have understood your family, you will know where to use your energy.

The more your family asks you to do whatever you want to do, the more this road will be a big trap for you to languish for a long time. On the contrary, the more your family members do everything possible to obstruct you, you have to silently cheer yourself up, and you have finally come to the right path.

Why? Some people will say, can my family still harm me? Isn't everyone in my family doing it for my good?

This is not absolute, some parents have great knowledge, so they want their children to be useful to society, without considering whether their children like the path they have arranged for them. Some children are more familiar with certain areas than their parents, so they know what they like. There are even children who are introverted or have always been weak and deceitful because of their introverted or personality, so they can only follow the path prepared for them by their families, and no matter whether this road is good or bad, even if they are tired to death, they will be grateful to their parents for the choices they made.

In fact, most parents don't want their children to surpass themselves, so they will follow the little insight in their minds to formulate what they think is the right path for their children, but they don't know that self-righteous ideas will kill a large number of children with their own opinions.

I am also a person who has experienced a rebellious period, so I know better that any thoughts I have at that moment, which may not be mature enough for others, but for me, it is an idea that I will never regret, even if it is wrong, I have to experience it myself to know, and I can't stop because my idea is wrong.

I don't smile much now, and I don't like to deal with people, largely because of my rebellious blood. If I want to fight against my family, because they don't allow me to do something, I have to do something!

This is not to show off to them, but to give themselves an answer as to whether it is right or wrong to choose the path of literature. Whether this path is right or wrong, I can afford the results, and I can afford to waste this time.

I'm not narcissistic to tell you that this kind of person who insists on his own ideas, no matter what industry he is in, he will definitely be able to achieve great things. This is a master who can understand human nature! This is a man with an extremely good brain, and he will definitely be able to mix it up.

Ordinary people may feel that others have introduced a job to them, and they have done an ordinary job in the unit, and then their life is also ordinary, and they feel that the person who introduced them to a job is their future benefactor. Believe it or not, as long as something happens to this so-called benefactor, ordinary people will definitely talk about it behind his back, and they won't even help him, which will lead to an extreme deterioration in the relationship between the two people. Why wouldn't ordinary people help him? Because, he felt that this benefactor was just a trivial matter of helping him find a job, and the benefactor's incident was too big for him to help.

If a person, you help him, he says to you, thank you, this and that, at most, this can be mixed up at the manager level. So, dear book friends, have you found that people with different cognitions see different things, and the focus of the two people's paintings is different.

Ordinary people see their own grievances.

What does that mean? I have to get what I do, and I have to pay for it as soon as I pay! Quickly wanting to know the harvest is the same mindset as my father. He's a guy who desperately needs to know the results, and every minute and second late, he'll be furious, and even swear at you.

Let me tell you, I went from being a handyman in a noodle shop to being the head of a company, and now I can write about my own experiences here, and you don't know how many times I have endured the urge to correct the pedantic thinking of my family.

Ladies and gentlemen, you must remember that everyone who has a good relationship with others in life must have suffered a lot of grievances.

Dear book friends, where do you think people's temperament comes from?

Let me tell you, man's temperament comes out of patience, and man's ruthlessness is also endured. What does it mean to be really ruthless? A really ruthless person is a person who can really endure, not a person who is really capable.