Even in the face of death, there is no escaping a reality, the icing on the cake is easy, but it is difficult to send charcoal in the snow.

Just as it is difficult to hide the light of the stars even in the dark of night, it is easy to add icing on the cake, but it is difficult to send charcoal in the snow.

On the road of life, we often encounter various setbacks and difficulties. Sometimes, instead of the icing on the cake and praise, we need real help and support. However, the reality is often not as good as it could be. When we are struggling with difficult times, few people are willing to lend a hand and help us get through it.

Perhaps, this is not because they are not empathetic, but because in this competitive society, people tend to be more concerned about their own interests and gains and losses. For those who already have a lot of them, they'd rather be the icing on the cake than the charcoal in the snow. Because the icing on the cake can give them more honor and benefits, while sending charcoal in the snow requires more cost and effort.

However, true friendship and love are not like that. They are not only companions and compliments in good times, but also support and help in bad times. Only those who have experienced adversity and setbacks can truly understand the preciousness and importance of sending charcoal in the snow. Because at this time, people need not only material help, but also spiritual support and encouragement.

Therefore, we should cherish those who are willing to lend a helping hand in difficult situations. They are the precious people in our lives, and their help and support are our most valuable treasures. At the same time, we should also learn to lend a helping hand when others are in need, because only in this way can we truly demonstrate the value of friendship and love.

It's easy to put the icing on the cake, but it's hard to send charcoal in the snow. However, as long as we manage friendship and love with our hearts, and use practical actions to help and support others, we can harvest more warmth and beauty in this highly competitive society.

If, you have observed the kind of easy fundraising in the circle of friends, you will find that even donations are a circle of money, the richer the person, the better he will raise money, and the more leaders support, there will be more and more people and units. There are a lot of rich and powerful friends to help forward, then everyone will give face. There is money in the circle, and there are many people who donate money.

I have seen people inside the banking system, the child is sick, the presidents of major banks take the lead in donating money, and an Internet celebrity can raise more than one million in a day, these people are sick, often the family's car and house do not need to be sold at all, and the money for medical treatment can be had, even if the final outcome is not good, at least it does not drag down the family.

And the poor, click in to see, look at their photos, the pixel is poor, the environment is poor, it is estimated that there is not even a better mobile phone, then the text expression is even worse. Many people can't even speak clearly, and such donations often have a low goal, that is, 100,000 or 200,000, but many times when it is over, they can only raise about 20,000. There is no way, everyone is a poor friend, who can help whom? If you smash the pot and sell iron to see a doctor, if you die, your family will be unlucky, and in the end you will have nothing but to work as a coolie to pay off the money.

The reality is so cruel, people who have no influence, people who have no use value, even die quietly.

This is true in the face of human life, and even more so in the face of business. I myself never borrow money, nor do I borrow money from others, but if one day someone around me wants to borrow money from me, then everyone has a default amount in my heart, and the amount is determined by the relationship between us and your strength to repay the money. Your value can determine the amount of money within the limit, as long as I dare to give it to you, it means that you don't pay it back, I can accept it, you are worth this money in my heart. However, if this quota is exceeded, or you don't have a quota with me at all, I will definitely not pull out a dime, and you just have a big reason, and I don't have a dime.

Before the age of twenty-six, I didn't understand what the value of a person was, so when my friends came to me to borrow money, I usually didn't borrow it, and then I would be looked at by the other party with a contemptuous look. Later, when I had money, my friend came to me to borrow money, but I still didn't borrow it, although it was still the same look, but I could already ignore his eyes, after all, he didn't have a quota in my heart, so naturally I wouldn't lend him money. The feelings between people cannot be exchanged, only interests and interests can be exchanged, so you must remember that when you have money, if you don't take it seriously if you have 5,000 or 10,000, unless you can guarantee that you will have a smooth life for a lifetime, otherwise one day you will be down, you try it.

I knew all over the world back then, and now you can't borrow 10,000 yuan, not that others don't have money to lend you, but people don't dare, or even disdain to lend you money.

Book friends must cherish what they have, don't be too generous when you have money, if you run out of money one day, the world will change for you. In this realistic society, we are all slaves driven by money. The rich can enjoy various privileges and benefits, while the poor can only languish at the bottom of society. This is not our pursuit of money, but the reality of society.

Whether in the hospital or in the circle of friends, we can see the gap between the poor and the rich. The rich can easily raise large sums of money, while the poor can only rely on their own strength and the help of those around them. This is not our prejudice against money, but the reality of society.

This is especially true in the business arena. If we want to connect with someone or make a deal, we have to consider the strength and credibility of the other person. If we do not have sufficient information or trust, we may avoid any contact or transaction with the other party. It's not that we're greedy for money, it's a social reality.

In this realistic society, we must recognize the importance of money. We must not be fooled by money, but we must also acknowledge the role of money. Only with sufficient wealth and resources can we gain a foothold in this society and gain more opportunities and rights. This is not our pursuit of money, but the reality of society.

Therefore, book lovers must cherish the wealth and resources they have. We can't be too generous or generous, as this could cost us our wealth and resources. At the same time, we must also acknowledge the role of money, as it is the basis for us to gain more opportunities and rights in this society. Only by grasping our wealth and resources can we achieve more success and achievements in this realistic society.