2023/12/8 Achievement of others
I have mentioned many times that people should know a good big brother in this life, why?
Every big brother is like this, he is the most hopeful in this world to have countless capable children around him, and he will use his best efforts to help you become an excellent person.
Because the eldest brother is full of resources in his hands, the eldest brother sees different things, and the eldest brother is not helping you for your good, but has his own ambitions.
Therefore, the eldest brother is the most willing to help the children around him, and everyone is different at different stages.
When you are just starting out, it is for yourself to work hard, and then you start to work hard for your family or for your boss halfway, you always hope that others will achieve you, but in fact, there have been people who have really achieved themselves, or there has been a stage when you have achieved results, the greatest happiness and your greater achievements come from your achievements in others.
This world is like this, if you really want to achieve great things, if you want to be a big brother, then you only have one way to go, and that is to achieve others.
Why? Because on your own, it's impossible at all, it's selfishness first, and then great love. This is called not because of its selflessness and evil, so it can become its selfishness. On the contrary, a person is not for himself, but for himself, and this is the truth in this world.
Dear book friends, do you know how important it is to find a qualified big brother? Finding a big brother, his circle, his social experience, his experience of some things, his judgment of the future, and his straight and straight guidance on your direction will multiply your time, multiply your wealth, and multiply your opportunities.
When you have the best big brother by your side, you will have a second big brother by your side, and then there will be countless big brothers around you, why? It's not because you're excellent, it's because you've learned how to get along with big brother, getting along with big brother is getting along with opportunities, getting along with opportunities means having resources, and having resources means that there will be more big brothers to help you, which is called a real positive cycle, rather than going around in a dead loop.
If there is a real big brother, there will naturally be a fake big brother, I wrote before that the landlord brother wanted to borrow power from me, that is a fake big brother. With the eldest brother, sometimes I am afraid that you are with the wrong person, and there is a way to judge the eldest brother.
I ask all book friends, is there that kind of person who is on the rise, and then he has no ability, he has no money, and he has no ability, but he often has a big brother around him, and his big brother will become more and more, I tell you that the rising period is like this, it has nothing to do with your efforts, it has nothing to do with your major, and it has nothing to do with your experience. If it is you, then the rising period around you depends on whether the resources of the big brother around you are increasing, and the resources of the big brother around you are increasing, and you will go directly to the peak position by rocket.
Therefore, this is the easiest way to get promoted in life, because there is no way, the good resources, good information, and good industries of the society are in the hands of a few people, not in the hands of many people. Can you go up by stomping your feet on the spot? Even if there are people who can go up by stomping their feet on the spot, how many people can you go and see? Whether it is officialdom, shopping malls or rivers and lakes, how many people do not rely on the big brother to go up? All of them!
So, at this time, what are you going to learn? You have to learn the ability to get along with the eldest brother, knowing the eldest brother is the easiest thing in the world, and you can get to know the eldest brother if you spend money, it's as simple as that.
The reason why you don't have a big brother by your side is because you don't have any money in your hand, because you don't dare to spend money, and you don't dare to easily test others for your help. Or rather, it's because you think money is more valuable than big brother, can you understand what I mean by writing this sentence?
Then let me ask you, is the eldest brother more valuable, or is the money valuable? Big brother has everything, is there a luxury car, are there those high-spending places? Is there a big brother in business school? Big brother has everything, the key depends on whether you have the ability to become friends with big brother, and it also depends on whether you are willing to be with big brother, the core is whether your brain is poor or not, whether you can see money, whether you can see wealth, this is the most critical thing.
At this time, there will be a good book friend who said, "How can I know my eldest brother without money?" "I don't like to write the answer to this kind of question, there is no money because you don't see the money.