As long as you have the ability to handle a person, your fate will definitely change, and your career will definitely go to the next level.

I tell you book lovers, if you go to a party, it's organized by the organizers. Then you remember, in today's gathering, the most important thing you need is to thank the organizers.

Stand up to you and lift a glass of wine. What should you do at this time? Every glass of wine is a thank you to the organizers for bringing everyone together today.

If, without this organizer, maybe we would have gone our separate ways tonight, and no matter how much money he spends, no matter how much time he puts in, all of us should be grateful to him. That's the most important thing you should do when you go to this meeting, and after a while, what is the second thing?

Continue to thank, "Oops, I forgot to say one thing just now" said to the organizer, "I was very happy today, there was something tonight, but I met a certain big brother here today, and that big brother was on your event, which made me feel how it is." "Since you talked about this big brother, do you want to praise the big brother again? Is that right? Then I want to ask all book friends, are you helping that big brother and holding him up, are you praising the organizer? So when you praise the organizer, when you come back and introduce it again, will the organizer have a lot of face? Because, the people who attended his guests were very powerful, so did you come back to thank the organizers at this time? You know what I mean? Then I ask all book friends, the organizer of an event, will he come back to thank you? At this time, it was the turn of the organizers to thank the people who had been going on for a long time and began to stand up and talk to everyone. "Thank you very much for Mr. Qu's recognition just now, and I am also very honored."

Dear book friends, catch the thief and catch the king first, many times you don't understand the most basic operating rules of this society, which leads to you making mistakes in many things, agree? Then, you will find that if you don't understand these things, when you go to a party, you will show it to all kinds of people like a peacock. "How beautiful do you think I am? How beautiful do you see me? How strong do you see me? How good do you see me? "And what you really have to do is to have a good relationship with the organizers, with the hosts.

Then I would like to ask all the book friends, this activity is organized by him, is the network all his? If you want to get a network, is it efficient to get to know each other? Or is it efficient to have a good relationship with him? Since he is an organizer, does Dai not mean that he has the organizational ability, that he has connections, and that he has a social background? Will he organize the next time? Organize the next event, do you want him to continue to call you? Then you praise him, will he continue to call you? Got it? It's that you have a good relationship with him, which determines what resources you can get in the end, and you have to know that the basic rule of operation is that as long as you show up, this resource will be used for you.

The premise is that you have to be human. Nothing, it's okay. And what is the biggest premise for getting connections, time. You have to have time to socialize, you have to have time to search for shows, if you don't have time, it's useless if you have money, but if you don't have money and you have time, then you can provide emotional value to others, and you just provided greater emotional value to the organizers at the event.

When you stand on the side of the organizer and praise the organizer, do you know what he thinks? This person's emotional intelligence is really high. Okay, so at this time, when someone goes to praise the organizer, what should you do? The person was organized by him, and the last video was you, will you be called next time? Called, got it?

Most people go to parties and make connections at the occasion, and they just praise themselves and say that they have a few factories or some assets that they own, which is ineffective socializing. Dear book friends, you remember, you don't have money, you don't have resources, you don't have anything to participate in such an occasion, as long as you can praise the organizer, you will have more and more occasions in the future, more and more people will take you there, and you will make more and more network resources.

You go to more than 20 meetings, and each time you praise him, and he praises him to the point that he is embarrassed, and you stand beside him. "I'm telling you, I've been to so many parties, but I'm the proudest to attend the organizer's party, why? Because, at the party organized by the organizer, the guests have the highest grade, the best humanity, and the strongest sense of social responsibility! ”

Dear book friends, let me ask you, when you are this boasting person, how will the organizers feel after saying these words? Whether there is emotional value or not, at this time you will find that there will be more and more people who like you and are willing to play with you.

What is the state of most people, once they come and go, take a business card to exchange it, add a WeChat, let's chat, let's meet tomorrow. Dear book friends, do you think this kind of guest is stupid?

I'll ask you the simplest truth, everyone in our mobile phone WeChat can lie down at least a thousand people, right? How many of these are really linked to you?

If you want to be more successful in this society, you need not only intelligence, but also emotional intelligence. If you can master emotional intelligence, then you will be able to survive better in this society.

What is Emotional Intelligence? Emotional intelligence refers to people's ability to deal with emotions and emotions, including self-awareness, emotion management, self-motivation, social awareness, and interpersonal relationship management.

If you want to improve your emotional intelligence, you need to learn how to relate to people, how to understand other people's emotions, how to control your emotions, how to build good relationships with others, and so on.

In today's society, the importance of emotional intelligence is increasingly valued. Whether it's in the workplace, family, or friends, emotional intelligence plays an important role.

For example, in the workplace, you need to learn how to get along with your boss and colleagues, and how to deal with conflicts and conflicts at work. In the family, you need to learn how to get along with your family and how to deal with conflicts and conflicts in the family. Between friends, you need to learn how to get along with friends and how to deal with conflicts and conflicts between friends.

If you are able to master emotional intelligence, then you will be better able to deal with these issues, get along better with others, and be better able to succeed. Therefore, it is very important to improve your emotional intelligence.

So how can you improve your emotional intelligence? Here are some ways to do it:

1. Self-reflection: Reflect on your own actions and emotions and understand your strengths and weaknesses so that you can better control your emotions and behaviors.

2. Accept yourself: Accept your strengths and weaknesses and don't strive for perfection too much so that you can get along better with others.

3. Learn to listen: Listen to other people's thoughts and feelings, don't interrupt others or make judgments too early, so as to better understand the emotions of others.

4. Learn to express: Express your thoughts and feelings, don't overly suppress yourself or vent your emotions on others, so as to get along with others better.

5. Learn to control: Control your emotions and behaviors, don't let emotions dictate your decisions and behaviors, so as to get along with others better.

Improving your emotional intelligence requires constant learning and practice. Only by constantly improving one's emotional intelligence can one better survive and develop in this society.