Suppose there is a situation where it is drizzling outside, and someone else has an umbrella in their hand and hands it to you. He said, "Take it, what if it gets big later?" You may politely say, "No, no, it's too much trouble for you", and just shut down the help of others. The channel is a two-way street, others love you, what kind of behavior should you use to reciprocate?

Dear book friends, you are troublesome, indifferent, refusal, ignorant, ignorant, and impatient, so you have closed this channel one by one. When someone gives you an umbrella, you will feel that the other party is too good and cares about yourself too much.

Hey, if you've always been grateful, then maybe the other party will invite you to dinner. The umbrella was taken away, so do you want to return it to the other party? Then when you change the umbrella, bring a little more gifts, will the relationship between the two people improve? Including, when you return the umbrella later, remember to say something to him, "Thanks to your umbrella, every time I see this umbrella, I think of you", what if you escalate this statement a little more? "As soon as it rains, I will think of you".

Dear book friends, you have remembered that people are higher than anything, higher than enterprises, higher than organizations, higher than management, no matter what we want to do, we have to deal with the relationship between people, and we have to deal with the stories between people, including some book friends in our lives who love to raise the bar.

You can't love him, you love him, he snaps and gives you a big mouth, and he says you're wrong. You love him, and he changes his hand and gives you a big mouth. How do you love him? You can't love him.

Friends, you remember, turn on the switch of other people's love, and when anyone talks to you, you must start with a sentence. "If you hadn't told me this, I don't know how many years I would have been confused. But I still have a little disagreement that I would like to share with you. "Is this kind of beginning okay? Who doesn't love you when you talk like that? This is followed by "My little disagreement is that you said it too well." ”

Ladies and gentlemen, you remember that it has nothing to do with life and death, there is no right or wrong, and sometimes people just compete because of a word. Let's say: is it three o'clock or half past three? Because of such a boring thing, two people can fight.

You have to understand a truth, nothing you say is absolutely right, you think the other person is wrong, and there is no absolute error, so is right and wrong so that important?

What's important is to be happy. The important thing is the relationship between people, the important thing is to make the other person fall in love with you, the important thing is that you can also fall in love with him, and that's the most important thing!

The things I teach you book friends are not things you don't know at all, but things you don't want to do, and things you have always ignored.

You would have "loved" the simplest of things. When you meet someone you love, regardless of men or women, you will definitely fall in love with him. But I still hope that everyone will love the person who doesn't love you, do you dare to love him first? Do you dare to be nice to him first?

If you don't dare, then you will always have to wait for the love of others, and you yourself will never be able to attain true happiness.

Therefore, let us be brave enough to love others, to be kind to them, to turn on the switch of their love, and to feel that beautiful emotion.

Don't forget that love is the simplest and most beautiful thing.