Dear book friends, do you think it is difficult to be a person or a difficult person to do things?

When I was about seventeen years old, I was a sworn brother who fell to the ground with six other brothers, and the eldest brother I recognized changed the course of my life.

Once, I went to invite the boss of a listed company to dinner, and I felt that there were only two of us at dinner, and the number of people was a little thin, and I might not be able to solve some problems, so I called him and my second brother over together, and the four of them had a meal together. The whole dinner was me and my second brother talking and laughing with the boss of the listed company, my eldest brother is not older than me, on the contrary, he is three years younger than me, he likes fitness, and he has trained himself out of a tendon meat. My eldest brother may have felt that I was not well entertained, or that he felt that he was not dealing with the boss of this listed company, or because of something else. In short, the eldest brother didn't say much during the whole dinner, he always took care of my third brother's emotions, and he was especially used to thinking about me.

On that day, we made an appointment to eat at seven o'clock in the afternoon, and I had already brought them over at half past six, my eldest brother made an appointment with the waiter in advance to serve the food, and the second brother arranged the atmosphere of the meal in advance, trying to make the atmosphere of the meal not so cold. The boss of the listed company came at 6:50, and then I personally welcomed him into the private room and introduced him to two "sworn brothers" who were younger than me but who were more stable than me.

I had a dinner party, I asked my eldest brother and second brother to help me stabilize the situation, and then the eldest brother and second brother helped me do things respectively, finished the dishes, and heated up the atmosphere, do you know how I feel? After entering the private room, I asked the boss of the listed company to sit in the main position, after all, he was invited, and then I personally pulled out chairs for the eldest brother and the second brother, so that they could sit on both sides of the guests, and I sat on the right side of the eldest brother, so that they could help them serve food and pour water. There's nothing wrong with this arrangement, right? After all, the left is the top, the right is the bottom, and the dinner for four people should also have some rules.

But after I finished arranging, the boss of the listed company corrected me, he said, "Brother, you are not arranging it like this, you listen to me, let your eldest brother sit in the main seat, I sit opposite the house, and you sit on my right hand." I said, "That's definitely not going to work, you're a guest, how can I let you sit across from my eldest brother?" Aren't you a drinker when you sit across from you? "He just had to let me listen to him, and then according to the instructions of the boss of the listed company, let my eldest brother sit in the main seat, he sat opposite my eldest brother, the second brother was next to the eldest brother, and I sat on his right hand.

When eating, the dishes came up, and I took care of them all the time, probably because of the transfer of seats, my eldest brother didn't say a word, but the second brother kept saying a toast, saying that he was welcome, what a flourishing and so on. Later, my eldest brother walked around the table with the wine, and they stood opposite each other and toasted each other, but I could hear that the eldest brother seemed to be not very happy, and said a few words and went back. Then, the second brother toasted the boss of the listed company with a second glass of wine, and I toasted the boss of the listed company with a third glass of wine.

Do you know how complicated my mind was when I watched that scene? Being a man is a knowledge, but now people are pursuing to do things, not to study how to be a man, and you don't know the importance of being a man, now everyone is looking forward to wanting to achieve themselves by doing things, no one regards being a man as an important thing to do.

You say that being a human being is not simple? I tell you that it is difficult to do things, but it is easier to be a person.

The smartest thing about my eldest brother is that he completely respects the arrangement of the listed owner, and even follows the instructions of the guests to complete a dinner. He came to toast to greet him, and it was also his own attitude to come to toast later. There are too many smart people in this world, and there are too few stupid people, if you want to be a stupid person who is good to others, it is not difficult for you to be a person at all, compared to love and compassion, respect is the most important!

Whether it is difficult to be a person or to do things is a matter of opinion. Some people think that being a human being is difficult because they have to deal with complex interpersonal relationships and deal with various challenges and difficulties. Others find it difficult to do things because of the skills and knowledge that come with uncertainty and risk.

In my opinion, it is not easy to be a person and do things, but comparatively speaking, it may be more difficult to be a person. Because you only need to have relevant skills and knowledge to achieve certain achievements in a certain field. Being a human being requires dealing with complex interpersonal relationships, coping with various challenges and difficulties, and requiring higher emotional intelligence and social skills.

Of course, that's not to say it's easy to do things. In the process of doing things, we also need to continue to learn and accumulate experience, and constantly improve our ability and quality. At the same time, it is also necessary to have a strong will and perseverance to remain calm and optimistic in the face of difficulties and setbacks.

In short, it takes hard work and persistence to be a person and do things. Only by constantly learning and improving one's abilities and qualities can one better cope with various challenges and difficulties. At the same time, it is also necessary to maintain a positive attitude and an optimistic attitude in order to go further on the road of life.