No matter what problems you encounter, there is only one problem you have to solve, and that is who you asked.

Asked the masters, asked the ordinary people, or asked the people who walked the blind road, walked the night road, and walked the black road? Depending on who you ask, your future will be decided.

When I was at the darkest of my life, I didn't go to dinner without six lighters in my pocket, and I had to go to the store to buy some without a lighter in my pocket.

Why, first of all, bringing a lighter is to light a cigarette for someone else, there is no high or low. But some people just took the fire away after lighting the cigarette and put it back in their pockets.

After I light a cigarette for someone, I put the lighter in front of him, or in his pocket, do you know?

These small things that seem trivial to outsiders will make a deep impression on you in the eyes of others.

If others can remember you, you will have more opportunities, and if others can't remember you, you will miss opportunities.

What is opportunity? Opportunity is what is given to you outside of your knowledge, what is given to you outside of your circle, what is given to you outside of your scope.

Where does that opportunity come from? Everyone's opportunities start when others start to remember you, and how many people in our lives are like Xiao Transparent?

Take myself for example, I was in a deep predicament, and no one around me could help me or give me answers. At that time, I started asking strangers questions, and I started leaving lighters in other people's pockets to let others remember me. I told them that I was a person who loved life and had pursuits, and that I didn't want to give up on my dreams. However, my dream could not be realized due to some difficulties. So, I started asking them for advice on how to solve these problems.

At first, I didn't have much hope. However, as I asked more and more people questions, I began to find that different people gave me different answers and methods. Some people's advice is practical, while others are good for me. Most importantly, I began to find that I found direction and hope in the advice of these people. I began to understand what my problem was and how to solve it.

Don't be afraid to ask questions of others. Some people may think that we are weak and helpless, but it is the advice and support of these people that makes us stronger and more confident. Therefore, no matter what problem we encounter, we can ask the people around us for advice. Whether it's family, friends, colleagues, or strangers, they can give us different advice and support. As long as we take the first step bravely, we can find our direction and hope with their help.

Dear book friends, think about it, are you transparent in other people's lives, or are you indispensable? If you're a transparent person and you say I want to do something big, I'm sorry, don't be kidding, it's no fun!

You don't have the ability to mobilize resources, you don't have your own personal brand, you don't have your own personal influence, what do you want to do? Just kidding, weary of you. You sold more than 100 of your family's houses, and you still have no effect. Then you say, I have a personal brand, I have a certain amount of influence, let me tell you, even if you don't have a house in your hand, you can earn a hundred houses. All opportunities start when others remember you, and this method has allowed me to make at least 1,000 more business friends.