2023/12/15 Society is a zoo

Friends, remember that human nature is not a place for you to socialize, and if you look at people as animals, the world will be simpler.

Do you have a colleague who is like a wolf around you? They are very ruthless in everything they do, and they are quite fierce in everything they do?

Do you have a kind of colleague who is as loyal as a dog? Do you have a colleague like an eagle who always sees things from God's perspective? Do you have colleagues around you who are like maggots, from humble backgrounds, and who are just as humble in their work?

Therefore, dear book friends, you should remember that my humanity is no different from your humanity, and my conscience is the same as your conscience. In other words, there is not much difference in human nature between people.

When you meet a new person, or when you observe a friend around you, you have to see if he has animal nature, if the other party has animal nature, it depends on the ratio between human nature and animal nature, and you usually have to experience this thing.

I ask all book friends, do you believe that in the lower circles, there are the most donkeys around you, believe it? Whatever you say to him, he will follow you to raise the bar. Whatever you say, he can return for you, and the truth he preaches is greater than the truth you preach, have you ever met such a person? Sometimes you may even find that when you enter some small restaurants, you will find that how can it be so noisy? Why is the atmosphere at every table so hot? This is a pole-raising field, because who plays a TV series, and the two of them can produce three bottles of wine. Because whether it was rain or snow yesterday, the two can bet until dark.

Nowadays, when I go to dinner with my staff, I still go to this kind of small restaurant. I didn't say that the quality of the employees is poor, but most of the employees are struggling in the original circle, I basically don't chat with them, just have a meal, and the rest of the chat topics are carried out by the employees themselves.

What is very interesting is that there is a little brother who posts all kinds of fitness photos in his circle of friends every day, and I said, "You post these fitness pictures every morning, there is no problem, but your lifestyle is richer than that of the leaders, can you still mix it up in the future?" ”

This little brother's family background is okay, his parents are civil servants, and there is a younger sister who can hold a black belt in taekwondo.

I said, "Aren't you causing trouble for your family?" He said, "I don't think it's anything", and an employee on the side raised the bar and said, "I think he is very healthy and sends fitness photos every day, how positive, how positive." I said, "What should I do in the future?" As a result, the matter was completely discussed in the next hour, and then I saw that the two live donkeys were really embarrassed to talk, and it would hurt the feelings of my colleagues if they continued to talk.

Suddenly, a week later, I saw that the employee's circle of friends had changed their style, and they began to take pictures of food, go to various restaurants in Laizhou to take photos and check in, and taste all kinds of food. I asked the little brother, "Why did you change your style in an instant in the circle of friends?" He told me, "Pan Dong has come to talk to me, if only I had listened to your brother Qu earlier." ”

Friends, you remember that if you find that your colleague is a donkey, then you should treat him the way you treat him. Sometimes, after telling him something, he can't accept it, and he can't accept it not because what you said is wrong, but because he is very stubborn.

When the leader who can manage him is like you, and finds the problem of this stubborn colleague, he will be reprimanded by his own leader without you to speak. Send some fitness pictures every day, be late every day, come over every day, and let the leader take care of other employees in the future? Then, Pan Dong left him a homework, and he was not allowed to post fitness pictures in the morning, and he could send other landscape photos, but he must come to work on time, and he must not post them on Moments no less than three times a day. Therefore, this little brother just didn't listen to persuasion, and how did the words come out of hearing people to eat well, and that's where they came out.

Ladies and gentlemen, you can see through this little thing that you must treat people as animals, and then you will understand what animals want to do next, so is it very simple for you to deal with animals? But I tell you, there are as many kinds of people as there are billions of people in this world, and people are very difficult to classify.

Therefore, I want everyone to treat people as animals.

Just like watching animals in a zoo, don't overcomplicate people. Every animal has its own unique habits and characteristics, and so do people. When we understand the animality of a person, we need to observe his actions and words to see whether he shows the ruthlessness of a wolf, the loyalty of a dog, the divine perspective of an eagle, or the humility of a maggot.

When we interact with people, we need to be like watching animals in a zoo, and at the same time, we have to learn to accept different opinions and opinions. Everyone has their own way of thinking and opinions, and sometimes it is necessary to put aside their own positions and opinions to understand and accept other people's views. Just like looking at animals in a zoo, we must not bring our own preferences and biases into observation, but look at the characteristics and habits of each animal objectively.

We need to learn to distinguish between human nature and animal nature. While there are similarities between human nature and animal nature in some ways, there are also significant differences between them. We need to learn to observe and analyze the ratio of human and animal nature in a person, so that we can better understand the actions and words of others, and at the same time be better able to protect our own interests. At the same time, we must also learn to distinguish between human nature and animal nature, so as not to be harmed by the malice of some people.