Do you know? I can tell you one thing with absolute certainty, why do cigars catch fire? Why does whisky become popular? There are a group of people who have nothing to do, and they have studied this taste clearly, and then it has become a tool for him to socialize upward.

When we watch movies and TV series, we will see these rich people abroad, everyone is smoking cigars and drinking whiskey, why are these people so powerful?

Then you will find that people who make a lot of money, they don't have time to study these things, but at this time, there are people with professional skills around them, and they will do these things. These people are a little better than others in this area, so they develop their learning skills to help the wealthy improve their luxury life.

If you want to socialize, the first thing you have to do is to find your advantage in front of others, and you can't be worthless.

I used to have a big brother, not the landlord of the house down the street, but another big brother, who once told me a truth.

He took me to golf practice when my business was bad and to play golf when my business was good. What do you mean? He puts more energy into playing than the average person, so at this time, you will find that it doesn't matter whether these bosses play well or not, the focus is to learn from each other's business experience in the process of playing. Therefore, in this matter, he took me to follow the boss around me to learn to socialize. In the process of socializing, he has gained more opportunities than the average person, and has also brought me a lot of opportunities to learn. You will find that there is such a person who can take you, he is very smart, he knows what advantages he has.

Dear book friends, you should remember that the process of socializing upwards is not about constantly showing favor to others.

If you are a boss, you often organize games outside, often eat out, then at this time I am someone you know, you find that I can take care of the people at your dinner every time, and I will thank you on behalf of everyone every time I have a meal. As soon as I pick up my glass, I thank you very much, and then at every meal, I remind you. Maybe someone is coming today, or maybe we seem to be a little snubbed by her, and you may need to go over and say hello to someone in both situations. And these are all things that I have seen, and I have come to remind you of what you do. I want to ask you, will you take me with you next time you eat? Have I helped you in these matters? Can I be your assistant in these matters?

Therefore, book lovers to change the direction to look at the world is the most worthy way for you to be recognized by the world. The way the world recognizes you is the value you bring to the world.

If you want to make yourself face the world is not so strange, then you should find what your own value is in your own world, so how to find your own value?

First, you need to ask yourself, what are your strengths or skills that others don't have? Second, what experience or knowledge do you have that others don't have? Finally, what resources or connections do you have that others don't have? When you find your value, you can better show your value by learning and improving your skills. At the same time, you also need to learn to show your value in social situations and let others see your value. Only in this way can you better socialize upwards and get more opportunities and resources. In addition, upward socialization is not only to get more opportunities and resources, but also to improve one's vision and way of thinking. In the process of networking, you can meet people in different fields and industries, and hear their different insights and ideas. All of these will have a profound impact on you, helping you to broaden your horizons and improve your thinking.

Dear book friends, if you want to continue to socialize, you must find your own value, and then learn and improve your skills to better show your value. The most important thing is to keep an open mind and contact people in different fields and industries to broaden your horizons and improve your thinking. Only in this way can you better face the world and not be unfamiliar with it.