Individuality is a luxury that we have not achieved beforehand.

Send a message, but the other party does not reply. Just because he doesn't reply to your message doesn't mean he hasn't seen it. I have a lot of useful or useless people on my phone to message me, and I never reply much, but people who have only messaged me once, I really don't reply. So, don't doubt yourself and don't be suspicious of others. When you send a message, you already reveal your own sense of need, and if you send a message to the other person, you want the other person to reply to you, which already shows that you are in a low position in the relationship. Moreover, you want him to reply to you, but he doesn't reply for a long time, and you start to make up for it.

Why didn't he reply to my message?

Is he busy?

Or does he ignore me?

Countless whys are swirling in your mind, and you may even wonder if you are doing something wrong? Actually, you didn't do anything wrong, it's just that you need his reply too much. But when you send the message, you already say that you have lost. Your sense of need says it all. You want him to get back to you, but he doesn't. At this point, you're already at a disadvantage.

Don't wonder why someone doesn't reply to your message, they may have seen your message but didn't respond to you for various reasons. It doesn't mean he doesn't want to reply to you, it's just that he doesn't. Therefore, don't make your sense of need too obvious. Because, personality is a luxury that we have not achieved beforehand.

Do you want to make money, do you want to get rid of the poor mentality?

There used to be a lot of micro-businesses in my mobile phone, and they were big team leaders, and I put them all at the top, and I didn't block their circle of friends. Book friends, do you think micro-business must be blocked? I did this at the beginning, and then I saw, oh, good guy, almost all the people in the country are micro-businesses. If I don't study the money-making thinking of these micro-businesses in the circle of friends, am I stupid? If I try to block them again, I'm going to have something wrong with my brain.

What is the essence behind the phenomenon? Don't easily block out the people and things around you, and make your mind more open and inclusive.

If I don't see this thoroughly, then I'm the one who blocks the trends of this world, and you'll find that there are a lot of people who do things out of the way they hate and like.

If you start with what you hate and like, then you are a naïve person, and you will only be accustomed to it all your life, and you will not receive the freshest information in this world at all. So, dear book friends, if you hate someone, don't block them, and similarly, if you like a certain behavior or a certain phenomenon, don't block it, because blocking will only make you miss the opportunity to understand the diversity and complexity of the world. Instead, you should try to understand it, to explore the reasons and essence behind it. Only in this way can you better adapt to this society, get along with people better, and understand the world better.

Personality, the word always seems to be full of contradictions. At a young age, we crave to have our own personality, we want to be different, we want to be recognized. However, as we mature, we will find that personality can sometimes become a burden to us.

In the pursuit of individuality, we can lose ourselves. We may pursue a certain style so much or insist on our own opinions so much that we ignore the feelings of others. This excessive individuality can make us lose touch with others and even make us feel lonely. However, we must not give up individuality because of this.

Personality is an important characteristic that distinguishes us from others, it makes us unique and makes us valuable. Individuality is part of who we are and a symbol of who we are. Therefore, we should not give up our individuality because of the loneliness or distress that the pursuit of individuality may bring. So, how do we maintain our individuality without letting it become a burden to us? I think it's all about balance. We need to understand that personality is not just about ourselves, it is also about our relationships with others. We need to respect other people's feelings and we need to understand other people's perspectives. We need to learn to respect the individuality of others while maintaining our individuality.

In interpersonal interactions, we may encounter various challenges. Sometimes, we may feel misunderstood, or denied by others. But remember, this doesn't mean that there is something wrong with your personality, just that there is a misunderstanding between you and others. At this time, we need to communicate patiently, we need to understand the other person's point of view, and we also need to stand our ground.

In general, individuality is an important trait for us, but we also need to learn to respect and understand others while maintaining individuality. Only in this way can we truly realize our own value and at the same time be able to live in harmony with others.