If you want to be noble, you must change two bad habits.

If you can do these two details well, your interpersonal relationship will get better and better, and you will get closer and closer to wealth.

The first, a lot of people's connections die in three words, playing with mobile phones.

Talking about business at the dinner table, the mobile phone is the source of misunderstanding, the other party orders you food, toasts, and you take a mobile phone to reply to the message? Why do so many people go out to talk about business, and they can't get it done after three or four talks? Because, you don't care about the other person. Remember, especially at the dinner table, as long as someone takes out their mobile phone, today's meal will definitely not be good and will not be able to negotiate. The dinner is not a place to call and reply to messages, and when you pick up your phone, you say that you don't care about the dinner, and you don't tell others that you are busy, which is a very bad message. When I ran the business before, as long as I saw the customer and the leader, the first action was to put away the mobile phone and deliberately make a shutdown action, telling the other party that I was really happy today, and I was very grateful to the other party for receiving me in person. I will talk with you as much time as you have today, without any outside interference. Therefore, when talking to others or talking about things, remember not to play with your phone on the side, and talk about business wholeheartedly, this is the way not to waste everyone's time.

Second, know how to pick up a wine glass.

Nowadays, many young people will definitely say something at the dinner table, "I'm sorry, I can't drink too much, I won't drink when I drive today." ”

If, there are eight people in this meal, and six of them all say that they can't drink while driving, then should the remaining two people drink against each other?

Therefore, remember that the important person must follow as long as the other person is willing to drink.

Drinking with you is a very important etiquette at the table, I am not encouraging you to drink, but when you are young, if you don't drink, then you must drink when you are older. I don't drink alcohol in the workplace, and I will definitely drink it when you retire one day.

If you have to do so, you can't drink it. Or maybe the amount of alcohol is really bad, so what should I do?

You must know that refusing alcohol does not refuse attitude. First prepare a wine glass, then a large glass, which should be very exaggerated. If you don't have a big glass, just come up and tell the other party, I can't drink, the amount of alcohol is very poor, but the premise is that you are not allergic to alcohol. Therefore, I prepared two cups, one is the same small cup as the other party, and the other cup is ready to put boiled water, because you want to accompany each other from beginning to end to drink the wine, this opportunity to get together is rare, you can learn a lot of knowledge with each other, and the time together must be very happy.

This will not only let the other party realize your sincerity, but also let the other party understand that you are a very real person, and let the other party know that you want to make friends with him very much, and also make your first impression in the other person's mind better, and every time you drink in the future, it will take you with you.

Playing on your phone means that you respect others or not, and whether you take alcohol or not proves how good your social skills are.

Don't play your phone too much in your interactions with people. Although mobile phones have become an integral part of our lives, excessive use of mobile phones can give the impression of disrespect.

In our interactions with others, we should pay full attention to each other and listen carefully to each other's opinions and ideas, rather than playing with our mobile phones while doing things perfunctorily. This is not only a basic courtesy, but also the foundation of a good relationship.

Second, learn to take the initiative to communicate with others. In social situations, some people may be afraid to take the initiative to communicate with others because they are shy or not good at words. But if you want to expand your network and get the help of your nobles, you must overcome this fear.

To learn to take the initiative to communicate with others, you can start with topics such as greetings and hobbies, and gradually deepen exchanges to establish good interpersonal relationships. If you want to be noble, you must change these two bad habits. Pay attention to your words and deeds and improve your social skills, so that you can get along with others better and get more opportunities and resources.