The higher you go, the more others decide whether to help you or not, it depends on whether you will make money, or can help him make money, or what special problems you can help him solve with your skills.

Where is there anything to help you for no reason?

Because you are his fellow countryman, classmate, sibling, relative, so help you?

This kind of help is not reliable at all, and many of them lie to you in this name.

If you have a unique position in a subdivided field and make money, there will be an endless stream of people who help you; You are incompetent, have low cognition, are poor, and are thin-skinned and lazy, unwilling to pay the cost, don't think that anyone will help you.

In modern society, relationships between people are often based on the exchange of interests. The higher you go, the more people are willing to help you, it often depends on whether you can bring some kind of benefit to them. This benefit can be monetary or a skill that you have that can help them solve some special problems.

In our lives, there are always some people who are willing to take the initiative to help us, but this help does not mean that they have special feelings or obligations for us. Many times, they are willing to help us because we have certain qualities or abilities that can bring them something in return. Therefore, in order to get more help in real life, we must strive to establish our unique position in a certain niche and constantly improve our capabilities and values.

When we have a certain ability and value, we will find that there will be more and more people around us who are willing to help us. These people may be our colleagues, friends, partners, or those who want us. They want to be able to connect with us so that they can get more help and support in the future. Therefore, we should cherish these people and strive to build a good relationship with them.

However, we must also be soberly aware that not all people will take the initiative to help us, and not all of them can bring us real benefits. Some may deceive us under the guise of helping, and some may leave us when we need it most. Therefore, we must learn to distinguish between right and wrong, distinguish between true and false friends, and always be vigilant.

Finally, let's be clear: life is short, and only the present moment is real. Instead of dwelling on the illusions of the past or the future, we should cherish the present and strive to pursue our dreams and goals. When we meet someone or something we like, we should be brave enough to express our feelings or strive for opportunities, so that we will not regret not seizing the "moment" that we once had, so that we can truly experience the beauty and meaning of life.

But the reality is cruel, and the cruel truth is that even if you have a unique position in a niche and make money, not everyone is willing to help you. Because everyone's values and interests are different, some people may be jealous of you or worry that your success will threaten their position. Therefore, in order to get help from others, in addition to establishing a unique position in one's own field, it is also necessary to be good at communication, coordination, and building good interpersonal relationships.

The higher you go, the decision of others to help you or not often depends on whether you can bring benefits to them. This benefit may be monetary, or it may be that you can solve certain problems for them. However, even if you achieve something in one area, it doesn't mean that everyone will take the initiative to help you. Because everyone's values and interests are different, some people may be jealous of you or worry that your success will threaten their position.

To get help from others, in addition to establishing a unique position in your field, you also need to be good at communication, coordination, and building good interpersonal relationships. This requires us to have certain social skills and emotional intelligence, to be able to understand the needs and feelings of others, and to connect with them effectively.

At the same time, we must also understand that helping others is not a one-way effort, but a mutually beneficial and win-win relationship. When we help others, we also receive help and recognition from others, which helps us expand our network of contacts and resources. Therefore, we should help others as much as we can, and at the same time, we should not forget to be grateful and give back to others for their help.

Finally, we need to understand that success in life is not achieved by the help of others, but by one's own efforts and struggles. We should not rely on the help of others, but should improve our ability and value through our own continuous learning and growth. Only in this way can we be invincible in the fierce competition and realize our life values and dreams.