2023/12/30 The law of value

In the interaction between people, in the long run, the law of value always plays a decisive role. This law applies not only to economics, but also to human relationships. To put it simply, if you can bring enough benefits to the other person, then others will be willing to associate with you; On the contrary, if it does not bring benefits to the other party, others will naturally choose to distance themselves.

When you want to establish or maintain a relationship with someone, the first thing you should consider is the other person's interests and values. The relationship will only be stronger and lasting if you can bring tangible benefits or benefits to the other person. If you're only associating with people for your own benefit, then you'll end up attracting only people who just want to take advantage of you, and these people tend to consume your energy, time, and resources, leaving you in endless troubles and dilemmas.

For those who have no value and do not know how to be altruistic, they often have very strong emotional appeals. These people often show negative emotions such as jealousy, hatred, complaining, etc., and they always feel that others do not love them, do not respect them, and do not understand them. They always feel that others are hurting them, bullying them, jealous of them, playing with them, and taking advantage of them. These people tend to have a very negative mindset and are full of negative energy, they are always stuck in their emotions, which also makes the people around them feel uncomfortable, uncomfortable, embarrassed, and angry.

Therefore, we should always follow the law of values when interacting with people. We should focus on our own values and interests, and at the same time consider the interests and values of the other party. Only in this way can we build healthy, stable, and long-lasting relationships and make our lives more fulfilling and meaningful.

In interpersonal relationships, the law of value is not only reflected in material interests, but also in emotional and spiritual aspects. When we are able to give them care, support, encouragement, and help, we bring value to others, both emotionally and spiritually. This value is often more precious than material benefits, because it can penetrate deep into people's inner world and satisfy people's emotional and spiritual needs.

When we care about others, we are able to make them feel loved, respected, and understood. This kind of emotional support can make people more confident, strong, and optimistic to face life's difficulties and challenges. At the same time, when we help others, we are not only able to solve their problems, but also to make them feel capable and worthy. This kind of help not only strengthens friendship and trust between each other, but also makes people more appreciative and grateful for every moment in life.

Conversely, if we focus only on our own interests and needs and ignore the feelings and needs of others, then we will lose balance in our relationships. We can become selfish, cold, and heartless, looking only out of our own interests and disregarding the feelings of others. This behavior not only destroys our relationships, but also makes us lonely, helpless, and lost ourselves.

Therefore, in interpersonal relationships, we should always focus on a win-win situation of value and interests. While we should care about ourselves, we should also care for others, and give support and help to others. Only in this way can we build healthy, stable, and long-lasting relationships and make our lives more fulfilling and meaningful.