2023/12/30 Smart people are different from weak people

Let's not take the initiative to help low-level people, let them come to you for help, and you can do it again, and you can't do it every time, otherwise you are just harming him and making him lose his consciousness of relying on himself.

For the poor who have hands and feet, it is even less sympathetic, because if they don't work hard themselves, naturally they have nothing, and you work harder than him, so you live better than him. We will only help those who have contributed and used their brains ourselves, and we can only understand and accept them by talking to them. And those who are very low, you don't talk to them, let them continue to be low, that's his place. You want to pull him, and he wants to drag you down, he wants to raise the bar with you, argue with you, argue with you. Obviously, you are kind enough to help him, but he doesn't understand it, so he has to reason with you.

The most annoying person is the kind of person who has no ability and is full of reasoning. You teach him experience, and he says you're talking bullshit, it's chicken soup. He felt that he was right, and said a lot of his opinions, but he didn't gain anything for himself, he mixed badly, and he was still like that. If you stay away from them, you will become stupid and lose time.

Smart people and weak people can't mix together, their thinking is different, their ideas are different, their language content is different, their behavior is different, and their mental strength is different.

Instead of reaching out to those who are at a lower level, we should let them seek our help. In this process, we can't help every time, otherwise we will only harm them and make them lose their sense of self-reliance.

For those who have hands and feet but live in poverty, we should keep our distance. The reason why they have a difficult life is largely because they don't work hard. You work harder than them, so your life will be better than theirs.

Before we help, we first need to determine if those people are also working on their own efforts. Only those who have put in the effort and used their brains to think about the problem themselves, we are willing to communicate with them and help them. By communicating with them, we can better understand their situation and provide them with more effective assistance.

And for those with lower levels, we don't have to say much to them. Keep them at a low level, that's where they should be. If you try to pull them along, they may find ways to drag you down and get into an unnecessary argument with you. In this case, your kindness may be misinterpreted or even seen as an attack.

The most annoying people are those who have no skills of their own, but always like to make high statements. When you try to share your own experience, they may be dismissive and think that you are just telling empty truths. These people tend to get caught up in their own stubbornness and fail to see their own shortcomings, which ultimately leads to a mess in their lives.

It is challenging to get along with smart people because we differ from them in terms of thinking, thinking, language, and behavior. It is even more difficult to get along with the weak, because their thinking and behavior tend to drag us down. Therefore, when it comes to getting along with people, we need to choose our partners wisely so that we can develop ourselves better.

Instead of wasting time pestering with low-level people, we should focus on improving our abilities and intelligence. Because it is only through our own efforts and growth that we can truly help those in need, rather than just giving them temporary comfort. In the process, we need to learn to distinguish between what is truly helpful and what is only a temporary comfort.

For those who always like to make high-level arguments but lack practical experience, we should be more vigilant. Their remarks can mislead us or even put us in unnecessary trouble. Therefore, we need to keep a clear head at all times and choose our words and actions carefully.

At the same time, we also need to learn to cherish the time we spend with smart people. By communicating with them, we can gain new inspiration and further expand our thinking and horizons. Smart people are smart because they have higher cognitive abilities and a broader perspective. Communicating with them allows us to gain a more comprehensive perspective and a deeper understanding.

When we focus on improving our abilities and wisdom, we find ourselves unconsciously becoming more confident and empowered. This confidence and strength not only helps us to cope better with life's challenges, but also makes us more empowered to help those in need.

In short, we should cherish the time we spend with smart people and focus on improving our abilities and wisdom. Only in this way can we better help those in need and build a strong foundation for our own future.