2023/12/30 How important is it to have a thick heart?
People with a strong heart are invincible and always have a chance.
People with insufficient hearts, once they refuse, once they laugh at them, and once they fall, they will completely fall apart.
The key to quickly making a good impression on others is to learn to buy water. Spend the least amount of money to achieve the best results. The first time you meet someone else, you buy two cups of milk tea and bring them over, immediately close the distance, and bring two bottles of Red Bull to the little brother in the maintenance car, they will repair you more finely, and they will not pit you.
Smart people chat, negotiate, will have a rhythm of control, and when the topic can't continue, hand the other person a cigarette, a full glass of wine or tea, and introduce the dishes. Fools don't understand this, fools will only find ways to talk endlessly.
The essence of interpersonal communication is value exchange, you provide value to others, and others are naturally willing to give you back. Don't go empty-handed when someone treats you to dinner, and bring some small gifts. One is respect, and the other is better communication. Bring a bottle of wine or a box of cigarettes, and it is not strange that many people are gifted.
Learn to identify with other people's relationships. Your clothes are so good, your skin is so good, your article is really good, I want to agree with you. Everyone likes compliments, and in interpersonal communication, generously agreeing with others will make you gain a lot of unexpected surprises.
On the stage of life, people with a strong heart are always invincible and seize every opportunity, while people with a weak heart often collapse completely because of a rejection, a ridicule or a fall. It can be seen that the depth of the heart is essential for a person's growth and development. To become a person with a strong heart, you must first learn to make a good impression in interpersonal interactions. The key is to learn to "buy water". This statement stems from a social technique of spending the least amount of money to achieve the best results. For example, when you meet someone for the first time, buy two cups of milk tea and bring them over, which will not only immediately shorten the distance between each other, but also lay a good foundation for subsequent interactions. Similarly, when you take care of your car, bring two bottles of Red Bull to your brother, and they will repair it for you more delicately, and they won't cheat you. These tips will help you become more comfortable in interpersonal interactions.
In addition, smart people will have the ability to grasp the rhythm when chatting and negotiating. When the conversation doesn't go on, they'll hand over a cigarette, fill a glass of wine or tea, or introduce a dish to resolve the awkwardness and keep the conversation going. And the fool does not understand this, and will only talk non-stop, which makes it difficult to continue the topic. Therefore, it is also very important to master the rhythm and adjust one's behavior in a timely manner in interpersonal communication.
The essence of interpersonal communication is the exchange of value. If you provide value to others, others will naturally want to give you back. Therefore, when interacting with people, we should try to play to our strengths as much as possible and provide help and support to others. For example, when you have a meal to eat, don't go empty-handed, and bring a small gift. It's not just a form of respect, it's also a way to communicate better. Bring a bottle of wine or a box of cigarettes, and it is not strange that many people are gifted.
Finally, it is also very important to learn to identify with other people's relationships. In interpersonal interactions, we should learn to praise and identify with others generously. A simple compliment or affirmation, such as "You look so good in this dress", "You have good skin", "You are so good in this article", can make people happy and increase their good opinion of you. Therefore, in interpersonal interactions, generously identifying with others will give you a lot of unexpected surprises.
In short, the reason why people with a strong heart can be invincible and always have opportunities on the road of life is because they have mastered the skills of interpersonal communication and the principle of value exchange. By learning skills such as "buying water", mastering the rhythm, providing value, and generously identifying with others, we can also be more comfortable in interpersonal communication and lay a more solid foundation for our life path.