Your physical body has undergone countless devastation before your spirit can be full and your material resources rich.

Don't envy the success of others, that's how many people have gone through the experience of licking the blood at the tip of the knife.

Every successful person has a story behind them. Don't envy other people's transparency, other people's transparency, they are all smashed with blood, tears and money.

When the weak encounter something big, their hearts will collapse. Because he doesn't face it, doesn't accept it, and always complains about "why it happened to me, why, why".

Treating a problem as a problem and getting hurt are all weak. For example, the weak think that if others leave you, they will abandon you and betray you.

Because, the weak always regard themselves as victims, thinking that you are not good and unworthy, so you need others to give you and save you.

And in the world of the strong, there are no victims. Your departure from me is your loss. Whoever leaves me, I can find a better one. Whoever betrays me, I'm OK, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter, you can be fearless. Smiling, steady, normal, next.

As long as you can do it, you will be strong in the eyes of others.

The strong will not be hurt by problems, the strong think that all problems are to wake me up and make me stronger, and all problems are the only way to make me a better version of myself.

The interweaving of pain and reflection is the only way for personal progress. Only by experiencing countless challenges and tempering in the physical body can our spirit be tempered and enriched, and material resources can be accumulated. We should not envy the achievements of others, because behind those glories, there are often countless hardships and setbacks. Behind every successful person, there is an unknown struggle process. In the same way, we should not envy the transparency of others, this kind of wisdom of insight into the world is often bought by countless blood, tears and money.

For the weak, once they encounter difficulties, their hearts are easy to collapse. This is because they choose to run away from the problem and are unable to face and accept reality. They often feel sorry for themselves and complain about the injustice of fate. This kind of magnifying the problem and getting caught up in it undoubtedly exposes their weakness. For example, when they think that the departure of others is a denial and abandonment of themselves, they are essentially putting themselves in the position of victims, expecting alms and salvation from others.

However, in the world of the strong, there are no such as victims. In the face of parting or betrayal, they are able to remain calm, face it with a smile, and move on. In their eyes, the person who leaves may have lost a better opportunity. This calmness and firmness allow them to remain strong no matter what the circumstances. They know that problems are just a hurdle in the process of growth, a catalyst for them to become stronger. Only by facing up to the problem can we truly transcend the predicament and become a better version of ourselves.

Therefore, we need to learn to embrace pain as a catalyst for personal growth. Every reflection is a deepening of self-knowledge. In reflection, we can examine our own actions and decisions and learn from them. It is this interweaving of pain and reflection that pushes us forward to achieve both personal and spiritual growth. When we are able to face adversity and deal with problems calmly, we have embarked on a journey to become strong. In the eyes of the strong, pain and reflection are not burdens, but the only way to progress. They know that only through continuous tempering and challenge can they shape a more resilient and strong self.