2023/12/30 Cherish cheeky people
This world does not belong to those delicate post-90s or post-egg queens, but to those with thick skin.
In today's society, there are fewer and fewer thick-skinned people, and they are often upset by the eyes or words of others, and it is difficult for such people to mix well in society.
The thickness of a person's skin can be seen from the experience of childhood. If you were beaten and made a fool of yourself as a child, you may grow up to be a fearless demon king of the world. On the contrary, those who are as thick-skinned as walls are the most powerful people in this society.
I see a lot of young people who don't understand the hardships of life and are always embarrassed to accept help from others. For example, when a parent or friend picks them up on an electric scooter or motorcycle, they will be secretive and don't want to be seen. Another example is that they buy a bargain but are embarrassed to use it, for fear of being recognized. Such a person is likely to be trapped in his own little world in the future, unable to extricate himself.
Looking back on the previous generation of people, in order to make a living, they set up stalls, shouted at the top of their voices, and disturbed customers three times and twice, how can they take care of any face? In that era of material scarcity, the first thing people had to solve was the problem of food and clothing, how could they have time to think about the problem of face?
So, when you are able to throw your face on the ground and step on it a few times one day, and then pick it up and pat the dust and continue to use it, you will start to lose face. This "face" does not refer to vanity or self-esteem, but to a mature state of mind and wisdom in dealing with the world. Only when you truly understand the essence of life can you truly have "face".
We can't be like those delicate generations who see face bigger than the sky. In this competitive society, we need to learn to put down our bodies and be cheeky to fight for what we want. Cheekiness does not mean that there is no self-esteem, but rather the ability to maintain a resilient spirit and move forward in the face of setbacks and difficulties.
Cheeky people are not afraid of failure, they are not afraid of being ridiculed. They dare to try, dare to challenge, and dare to innovate. They know that success can only be achieved through constant trial and hard work. They are not afraid of being rejected, they are not afraid of being denied, because they know that these are not the criteria that determine their worth.
Cheeky people know how to cherish opportunities. They will not give up opportunities because of their face, nor will they doubt their abilities because of the ridicule of others. They know that opportunities are rare and that only by seizing them can they succeed.
Cheeky people know how to be sophisticated. They know that relationships are an important resource and that better outcomes can only be achieved through communication and cooperation with people. They will not give up their interactions with others because of their own face, nor will they affect their emotions because of the attitude of others.
In this time of challenges and opportunities, we need more cheeky people. They are not afraid of difficulties, dare to try, cherish opportunities, and understand the sophistication of human feelings.
Cheeky people are the strongest in this world. They are not afraid of words, they are not afraid of setbacks, and they are always determined to pursue their goals. They know that life is not smooth sailing, and only by daring to face difficulties can they meet the dawn of victory.
Cheeky people often possess perseverance. They will not be discouraged by momentary setbacks, let alone give up easily. In their dictionary, there is no such thing as "impossible." Even in the face of great difficulties, they can grit their teeth and move forward.
Cheeky people tend to have an open-minded mindset. They don't care too much about the criticism or ridicule of others, and they don't deny themselves because of it. They know that everyone has their own values and standards of judgment and does not have to change themselves in order to meet the expectations of others.
Cheeky people tend to have a keen eye. They are good at spotting opportunities and are more daring to seize them. They will not miss out on opportunities because they are afraid of failure, and they will not give up pursuing their dreams because of face problems.
Cheeky people are treasures in this world. They proved with their actions that success does not depend on luck or background, but on courage, perseverance and hard work. We should learn from them, face life's challenges bravely, and pursue our dreams with determination.