Dealing with the world is a discipline that we must face in life. For ordinary people, what they learn to behave in the world is often to please others, not to offend others, to put others high, to put themselves low, to flatter, to worship, to praise, to compromise, to be kind, to praise others in public, to bow their heads, to bend over, to toast, to invite guests to dinner, to pour tea, to open the door, to pay attention to dress, to know how to be polite, rather to wronged themselves, but also to accompany a smile, suppress temper. However, is this really the right way to behave in the world?

Indeed, the way of behaving described above contains some basic social etiquette and common sense, which are the basic norms that we must follow in our daily lives. However, this is only a superficial way of dealing with people, it only stays at the surface of etiquette and behavior. Truly being a human being is much more than that.

The real way of life should be based on the analysis of one's own strengths, find one's own strengths, and on this basis, continuously improve and strengthen these advantages. We should prove our worth and ability by presenting our achievements and works. At the same time, we also need to set our own principles, bottom lines and frameworks to screen the right people and things and weed out those who are not suitable.

In this process, we must not forget our own value and ability. We should use our own values and abilities to attract others and exchange the value of resources with others. And to do this, first of all, we must have enough confidence and confidence in ourselves.

If we blindly give in, give in, have no principles, have no practical ability, and be a good person, then others will not cherish our efforts and efforts. Because in their eyes, we are just people with no personality, no opinions, and no value.

Therefore, the real life is not to please others and wronged themselves, but to give full play to their own strengths and strengths, and show their achievements and values. At the same time, we also need to set our own principles and bottom lines, screen suitable people and things, and use our own values and abilities to attract others to exchange resource value. Only in this way can we truly grasp the true meaning of being a human being.

Therefore, we should not just stay in the superficial etiquette and behavior, but think deeply and explore to find a way that suits us. Only in this way can we go further, more stable and more successful on the road of life.

Dealing with the world is an esoteric science, which covers all aspects of life and is related to our status and achievements in society. Those practices that seek superficial harmony and identity in order to cater to others may bring temporary satisfaction, but in the long run, they may cause us to lose ourselves and fall into endless confusion.

The true way to behave in the world is to stick to oneself and respect others at the same time. This does not mean that we should be isolated from the world and admire ourselves, but we should maintain a clear self-awareness in our interactions with others, and not be easily swayed by the opinions of others. Each person is unique in their own way, and it is these uniqueness that make us different from others. We should cherish and play on these uniquenesses, rather than erasing them in order to pander to others.

At the same time, true life also requires us to have a tolerant heart. In this pluralistic society, everyone has their own ideas and positions. We should learn to respect these differences, understand and embrace different voices. Only in this way can we get along better with others and grow together.

More importantly, true conduct should be based on integrity. In interpersonal interactions, integrity is like a solid foundation that determines the longevity of our relationships with others. A person without integrity, no matter how beautiful he is on the surface, it is difficult to get the sincere recognition of others. And a person who adheres to integrity can win the trust and respect of others no matter when and where.

In short, dealing with the world is not a simple skill and strategy, but an attitude and wisdom in life. It requires us to constantly explore, reflect, and grow in practice. Only in this way can we truly grasp the true meaning of living in the world and live our true selves.