2023/12/31 The road to leadership is a bloody one
Leader's Path: Fight your way out of desperation
The word leader, it seems, is full of mystery and power. So, how are the traits and qualities of a leader formed? The answer is simple, they are all people who have fought their way out of a desperate situation. This is not to say that they have never faced difficulties, but they have chosen to face them bravely, learn from their experiences, and become stronger versions of themselves.
We all know that difficulties and challenges are an inevitable part of life. However, how we face these challenges determines the direction of our lives. When some people encounter a problem, they immediately seek outside help, hoping that there is a strong force to solve the problem for them. This dependent way of thinking, while it can temporarily relieve our stress, in the long run, it deprives us of the opportunity to grow.
Instead, true leaders choose to seek inward. They understand that they are the root of everything. There is no external force that can solve the problems of the ego. They know that only through self-reflection and growth can they truly overcome difficulties and reach a higher level.
Seeking inwardly is not isolating oneself, but turning one's attention inward, looking for strength and wisdom from within. It takes courage and determination because it is not easy to face your own shortcomings and mistakes. But it is only when we are brave enough to face ourselves that we can truly grow and progress.
Relying on others is not a sign of the weak, but reflexively relying on others, and not being willing to self-reflect and grow, is the way of thinking of the weak. True leaders, while they need the understanding and support of others, know that the key to solving problems lies with themselves. They are willing to take responsibility and face problems bravely instead of running away.
When you face problems bravely and no longer run away, you will find that all the good things and thoughts will come to you. This is because you begin to believe in yourself and in your abilities and wisdom. You begin to take back your power and no longer give it to others easily.
Life is like an adventure, full of unknowns and challenges. Your life will only truly begin when you decide not to run away from it, but to face it bravely. You will find that you have infinite power and wisdom, and if you believe in yourself, you can become a true leader.
As leaders, they have experienced countless adversities, and each time they have forged a path out of desperate situations with unwavering faith and fearless courage. In their view, facing problems is not to look for external strength to solve problems, but to dig deep into themselves and overcome challenges through self-reflection and growth.
They understand that true power comes from within. Being dependent on others is not weakness, but over-dependence and neglecting self-growth exposes weakness. Leaders know that the key to solving the problem lies with ourselves. Only when we face problems bravely and no longer run away from them can we truly grow and progress. Life is an adventure, full of unknowns and challenges. It's only when we decide to face it bravely, rather than choose to run away, that our lives really begin.
Leaders are all fighting their way out of a desperate situation, and they must seek inward whenever and wherever they are. Understand that you are the root of everything, and that no external force can solve your own problems.
In a word, when you encounter a hurdle that you can't overcome, do you immediately look for the help of a strong external force like looking for your mother, or do you look inward for self-reflection and growth?
Reflexively relying on the guidance and help of others is a typical manifestation of weakness.
For the strong, although we need others to understand and confide in others, the people who solve the problem are ourselves. When you are brave and no longer run away, when you are willing to take back your strength and no longer give up your strength, all the good things and wishes will come to you! Life can really begin from the moment when you don't run away anymore!