2023/12/31 Choose a spouse according to needs and values

In the first half of life, women tend to see family, friendship, and love as vital elements of life. They may choose to elope or marry naked with a man who is not financially advantaged for the sake of love. However, as we get older, our outlook on life and values also change. In the second half of life, women tend to pay more attention to material conditions and economic security.

When choosing a marriage partner, women may be more inclined to look for a self-motivated man with wolf-like perseverance and ruthlessness, as such a man can achieve higher achievements in his career. But be aware that a truly good man doesn't just belong to his wife or girlfriend, he also belongs to clients, teams, and society. Therefore, while women expect to be loved and accompanied by their husbands, they must also learn to be self-reliant and work hard to earn money on their own.

If you choose a man with a successful career as a partner, the woman needs to give him enough freedom. Because men with successful careers are accustomed to controlling others, what they need is an atmospheric woman who understands the general situation like a queen, takes care of the overall situation, and has a gentle personality. If you ask him to use the standards of a regular husband and try to control him, it is likely to cause him to resent him and even cause him to leave you.

In addition, a good man often dislikes women who have princess disease, are overwhelmed with emotions, or like to play with their temper. They appreciate independent, confident, and intelligent women more. Therefore, when women get along with a good man, they need to show their maturity and steadiness, not try to control him, but learn to adapt to his lifestyle and way of thinking.

As women grow older and accumulate life experiences, their values and outlook on life change. When choosing a partner, you need to make an informed decision based on your needs and values. At the same time, we must also learn to adapt to each other's lifestyle and work style, and work together to create a happy family.

Love, affection, friendship, in the years of youth, we are crazy about it, crazy about it. At that time, for the sake of our beloved, we dared to be the enemy of the whole world, and even if we got married naked, we felt very romantic. But as the years go by, we begin to understand that although love is important, life is not only about ups and downs.

As we move into another phase of our lives, we begin to yearn for that material stability. The man who can give us a place to rely on when we are tired and a safe man in the wind and rain has become our new pursuit. And the man who has a successful career and is financially prosperous has naturally become our first choice. But that doesn't mean we're becoming materialistic, it's just that we're putting an umbrella on love.

Of course, men who have successful careers are often busy people. They're either on a business trip or on their way to a meeting. At this time, we can't pester them all day long like a little girl, but we must learn to be independent and learn to take care of ourselves. At the same time, we also have to have our own lives and our own circle of friends. Love is not the whole of life, it is just a part of life.

And ah, you know what? Those high-quality men, they don't like that kind of delicate little girl. They appreciate the kind of women who are independent, confident, and intelligent. So, we have to keep improving ourselves, keep learning, and make ourselves better. Only in this way can we walk side by side with that good man.

In short, as we get older, our values and outlook on life change. But no matter how we change, we can't afford to lose ourselves. When it comes to choosing a partner, we make informed decisions based on our needs and values. At the same time, we must also learn to be independent and confident, continue to learn and grow, and create a happy family with our partners.