2023/12/31 Helping people also depends on who the other party is
If you help the rich, you will become a rich person, and if you help ordinary people too much and care too much about ordinary people, you will become an ordinary person.
I guess many people will refute me, but you can't understand it, and it's normal.
Because, you haven't tried it yet, and you open your mouth to talk nonsense, picking bones in eggs.
It is true that you need to help the disadvantaged, but you have to have the ability first, you yourself are living in poverty, it is very troublesome to eat and drink, and you are in debt.
Still going to help ordinary people?
You don't have that qualification, and you don't have that ability.
If you really have the same compassion as me, you should first make yourself rich, and then lead some ordinary people with gratitude to become rich, which is the best strategy.
Whoever your heart desires, you will become; Whoever you love to care about, who you love to follow, you will become.
We have to learn to think from the perspective of a master, and then you will become that kind of person.
First of all, we cannot deny that helping others is an excellent quality, especially for the disadvantaged, and we should pay more attention and help. However, I have a different view on "if you help the rich, you will become a rich person, and if you help ordinary people too much and care too much about ordinary people, you will become an ordinary person".
First of all, helping others does not make a person ordinary or poor. In fact, helping others is a selfless act that allows us to gain inner satisfaction and happiness. In addition, by helping others, we can also build broader relationships, which can lead to more opportunities and resources. Therefore, helping others does not mean that we have nothing to lose, but may lead to more gains.
Second, being rich is not our only motivation for helping others. While wealth is a goal that many people pursue, helping others can also be done for many other reasons, such as: to live up to one's own values, to improve the well-being of society, to spread positive energy, and so on. These reasons can make us more determined to help others and not be limited by wealth.
In addition, becoming rich or ordinary is not an easy choice. Our living situation and career choices are influenced by many factors, including family background, educational experience, social environment, and so on. If we place too much emphasis on the individual's choices and ignore these factors, then it can lead to misunderstandings and misleading about personal development.
Finally, we should think from multiple perspectives. Thinking from the perspective of a master can help us better understand the problem, but it doesn't mean that we should ignore the voices and needs of ordinary people. We should respect everyone's perspectives and feelings and try to find a balanced way to solve problems.
Although there is some truth in the point in the original article, there is also a lot to be discussed. We should think from multiple perspectives and strive to achieve our values and goals. At the same time, we should also respect everyone's views and feelings, and strive to contribute more to society.
Helping others is an excellent quality, especially for the disadvantaged, and we should pay more attention and help. However, we cannot simply equate helping others with one's wealth and social status. Helping others can be done for many reasons, for example: to live up to one's own values, to improve the well-being of society, to transmit positive energy, and so on. These reasons can make us more determined to help others and not be limited by wealth.
In addition, becoming rich or ordinary is not an easy choice. Our living situation and career choices are influenced by many factors, including family background, educational experience, social environment, and so on. If we place too much emphasis on the individual's choices and ignore these factors, then it can lead to misunderstandings and misleading about personal development.
Finally, we should think from multiple perspectives. Thinking from the perspective of a master can help us better understand the problem, but it doesn't mean that we should ignore the voices and needs of ordinary people. We should respect everyone's perspectives and feelings and try to find a balanced way to solve problems.
In practice, we can take the following actions to balance helping others with personal development:
1. Pay attention to your own inner needs and development. We can better help and support others by self-reflection and planning to achieve our goals and dreams.
2. Expand your network of contacts and resources. By connecting with people in different fields, we can gain access to more opportunities and resources to better help and support others.
3. Find a balance and play to your strengths. We can choose the career and development direction that suits us based on our interests, abilities, and values, so that we can better help and support others.
4. Promote the values of equality and inclusion. We should respect the rights and dignity of every human being and strive to eliminate social inequality and discrimination, so as to provide better opportunities for development and support for all.
We should focus on personal development while not forgetting our responsibility to help others and support the disadvantaged. Through efforts such as self-reflection, expanding relationships, building on personal strengths, and advocating for the values of equality, we can find a balance and achieve the common development of individuals and society.