2023/12/31 The poor don't go to their relatives, and the weak don't ask for others
On the stage of life, we are all the protagonists, and at the critical moment, only ourselves can save ourselves, and only ourselves can be reliable. In this real society, if you ask others when you encounter problems, almost everyone will prevaricate you, avoid you, and reject you. The ancients said: No one asks about the poor in the downtown area, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. This is not just a proverb, but a philosophy of life.
In this age of material supremacy, people will only approach you because of your strength and status, and help you because of your wealth and success. People often don't lift you up and help you because you're suffering at the bottom or you're plummeting. The world is cruel, but it's also fair. If you want to be helped, you first have to be worthy.
When you find out one day that self-improvement, self-reliance and self-improvement are the only way out, and making more money is the only way out, you will begin to be truly sober. Of course, seeking from the inside is not for you not to ask for outsiders, but you must first be strong in a certain aspect, and then ask for help, find someone to help, divide labor and cooperate, support each other, and achieve mutual benefit and win-win results. In this way, they will not bring humiliation on themselves and will not be left out in the cold.
In this society, apathy is the norm. If you don't have the strength and value, why should others help you? Only when you are strong enough can you attract those who are willing to move forward with you. So, don't complain about indifference, but work hard to improve your strength and value.
The poor don't go to their relatives, and the weak don't ask for help. This is a kind of wisdom in life. If you are always dependent on others, not only will you lose the opportunity to grow yourself, but you may also suffer from the cold eyes and ridicule of others. Therefore, we should learn to be self-reliant and constantly improve our abilities and values. Only in this way can we go further and more steadily on the road of life.
On the big stage of life, each of us is the main character. At this critical moment, the only one who can really help us and give us firm support is ourselves. This reality is cruel, and when you encounter difficulties and ask others for help, most people may choose to prevaricate, avoid or even refuse. The wisdom of the ancients: "The poor in the downtown no one asks, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains", which is not only a description of the hot and cold world, but also a profound revelation of the philosophy of life.
In the era of material supremacy, people tend to focus only on your strength and status. Only when you have a certain value and status will people take the initiative to approach and help. The world is fair, but it's also unusually harsh. If you want to be helped, you first have to prove your worth.
When we realize that self-reliance and self-improvement and self-improvement are the only way out, can we be regarded as truly awakening. Of course, this does not mean that you completely reject the help of others, but emphasize that you must have a certain strength and ability, and then seek the help of others to achieve mutual benefit and win-win results. In this way, we will not bring shame on ourselves and will not be left out in the cold.
Indifference in society is the norm, if there is no strength and value, how can others lend a hand? Only when you are strong enough can you attract like-minded people to move forward together. Therefore, instead of complaining about indifference, it is better to strive to improve your strength and value.
"The poor don't go to their relatives, and the weak don't ask for others" is a kind of life wisdom. Relying too much on others not only hinders self-growth, but can also lead to sneer and ridicule from others. Therefore, we must learn to be self-reliant and constantly improve our abilities and values. Only in this way can we go further and more steadily on the road of life.