Anyone with a little experience knows that people are snobbish. This is not to devalue human nature, but to be a sober understanding of reality. In our lives, there are always some people who avoid you when you are down, but flock to you when you are beautiful.

This is like the old saying: "The poor in the downtown area no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains".

When you are at a low point, you may find that the people around you suddenly become cold, and some people even distance themselves from you directly. It's not because they don't care about you, but because in their eyes, you may have become a nuisance, a burden that can't help. In this real society, people tend to choose to stay away from trouble, which is human nature.

When people reach a certain age, they should understand some human feelings. Looking at the world through the eyes of a child alone can be overwhelming. There is no love without a reason in this world, and there is no hate without a reason. Feelings often seem so fragile in the face of real interests. If you keep asking for it when you don't have any use value, it will only bring shame on you.

Smart people know that when they are at a low point, they should recharge their energy and silently precipitate themselves. They endure loneliness alone, digest pain alone, and focus on only one thing, that is, they must make a career, and they must mix up their personal appearance! Mixing in this society, spinelessness will not work. You can fail, you can lose, but you can't coax!

Instigation means that you have given up resistance, given up hope.

Therefore, we must learn to face reality and learn to look for opportunities in difficult situations. The warmth and coldness of the human relationship and the hot and cold state of the world are all unavoidable parts of life. Only those who can stand up for themselves in the face of adversity can ultimately lead to success. So, no matter what difficulties you encounter, hold on because you don't know when things will start to get better.

However, don't let this snobbish people and things discourage you. Because the real network is not how many people you know, but how valuable you are. When you are worthless, it is useless to know as many people as you want. But when you are truly valuable, you will find that those who have been estranged from you will take the initiative to approach you again. Because you can bring them tangible benefits.

Therefore, if we want to mix well in society, we must have our own value. Only when we become valuable ourselves can we attract more contacts and resources. And to enhance one's own value, one must continue to learn and grow. It is only through continuous learning and growth that we can continuously improve our abilities and stand out in the workplace.

In real life, those who are successful are people who understand the world and can handle interpersonal relationships. Not only do they have superb skills, but they also have super emotional intelligence and intelligence. They know how to get along with people and how to deal with complex interpersonal relationships. They know how to help others at the right time and how to ask for help when they are right. They know how to maintain their independence and individuality in the workplace and not be easily swayed by others.

Therefore, for us ordinary people, if we want to mix well in the workplace, we must continue to learn and grow, and improve our skills and emotional intelligence. At the same time, we must also learn to face reality and learn to deal with complex interpersonal relationships. Only in this way can we remain invincible in the highly competitive workplace.