2023/12/31 The core of success
What is the core of success? This is a thought-provoking question. In my opinion, the core of success lies in having enough initiative and being cheeky. It means having the courage to pursue your goals, not being afraid of failure and rejection, and always having a positive mindset.
First of all, sufficient initiative is the key to success. Successful people don't wait for opportunities to come to their doors, but take the initiative to find and seize opportunities. They are willing to take risks, take action, and keep trying new things. They don't give up because they're afraid of failure, but learn from their failures and move on. Initiative is also manifested in the pursuit of self-growth, constantly learning new knowledge, improving one's abilities and skills.
Secondly, being cheeky enough is also necessary for success. Being cheeky does not mean being shameless, but rather being able to remain calm and firm in the face of setbacks and difficulties. Successful people don't feel hurt or lost because of criticism, ridicule or rejection, and they are able to face everything calmly. They understand that only they can take responsibility for their own lives, and the opinions and suggestions of others are only references.
In addition to initiative and cheekiness, successful people also need to have the ability to forget their emotions and the spirit of not being afraid of heaven and earth. Emotions can affect our judgment and ability to act, and people who are overly emotional often find it difficult to stay calm and sane. Successful people, on the other hand, are able to control their emotions and face problems with a rational and objective attitude. At the same time, they also have strong self-confidence and courage, not afraid of difficulties, not afraid of challenges, dare to take risks, dare to innovate.
This super-powerful energy field is at the heart of success. At the beginning, the core performance difference between the big boss and the small boss lies in this. Small bosses often care too much about other people's opinions and evaluations, are easily influenced by the outside world, and lack autonomy and the ability to think independently. The big boss, on the other hand, is able to think independently, make decisions independently, without external interference, and always adhere to his beliefs and goals.
Although "shameless" sounds vulgar, philosophically, it is called "selflessness". Selflessness is a very advanced concept that means that one must become a selfless person in one's heart in order to be one without enemies. If there is no self, there is no indifference, then the heart is happy, and all difficulties do not matter. There is a sentence in the Diamond Sutra: There is no appearance, there is no self, there is no appearance of sentient beings, and there is no longevity. That's what it means. If we prove that we don't exist, that we are empty, and that others insult us and laugh at us, we are not hurt.
Hey, guys, have you ever wondered what the secret of success is?
Is it luck? Is it effort? Or is it talent? In fact, the core of success is to have enough initiative and cheekiness!
Take the initiative and seize the opportunity, just like grabbing food in the jungle, only by bravely rushing forward can you eat delicious tiger meat! Don't wait for the opportunity to send it to your door, then the daylily will be cold! Take the initiative to learn, try new things, just like an adventurer, and keep exploring unknown territory in order to find your own treasure!
It's not really shameless to be cheeky, but not afraid of failure and rejection. If you fail, you get up, and if you are rejected, you change directions. Don't let other people's ridicule and criticism knock you down, you have to be as tenacious as Xiaoqiang and as hard as a stone!
Of course, success also requires the spirit of forgetting emotions and not being afraid of heaven and earth. Don't let emotions cloud your judgment and actions, be calm and rational like a robot. Don't be afraid of difficulties and challenges, dare to take risks, dare to innovate, and move forward fearlessly like a warrior!
The core of success is continuous learning, practice and improvement. Only by constantly surpassing ourselves can we achieve more brilliant achievements on the road of life! So, guys, come on! Let's be a winner in life together!