Reject elders who still don't understand the true meaning of life at the age of fifty or sixty, but try to guide you in employment and marriage.

These elders may have a wealth of life experience, but their concepts and values may be outdated and unable to adapt to the changes in modern society. They may use their own experience as a basis to give you some advice that is not in line with the actual situation, and make you take a detour in terms of employment and marriage. Therefore, we need to think independently and find our own path instead of blindly following their guidance.

In the same way, we should reject those who are destitute and want to drink bad wine with you. These people may not have clear goals and plans for life, just living one day at a time. Socializing with them can affect your positive mindset and even put you in a negative mood. Therefore, we need to keep a clear head and look for people and things that can motivate us to keep moving forward, rather than being in the company of those who are depressed.

Finally, we also have to reject those juniors who do not want to make progress but want you to support them. These people may lack self-confidence and independence and are always dependent on others. They may pin their hopes on you that you will help them achieve their dreams. However, if we help them unconditionally, it will not only make them dependent, but also deprive them of opportunities to grow. Therefore, we need to encourage them to be self-reliant and learn to face difficulties and challenges on their own.

Never give these people "untied benefits".

Because if these things appear at the bottom, they will invite endless trouble. If you give them good, don't let them pay accordingly. Either they are taken for granted as straw bales and clean up the mess. or be regarded as villains with ill intentions, and be suspected of being good to them ten times or a hundred times. Why? Because just communicating with good intentions, he doesn't conform to the underlying basic logic. In the lower classes, people tend to lack trust and security, so they are more inclined to interpersonal relationships based on the exchange of interests.

If we are unconditionally good to others, we will not only make them feel taken for granted, but we will also make them feel that we have something in mind. Therefore, we need to deal with interpersonal relationships rationally, not to easily believe the sweet words of others, and not to easily give unconditional benefits to others. Only relationships built through true understanding and trust will stand the test of time.

For those elders who still have not understood the true meaning of life at the age of fifty or sixty, we cannot blindly follow their advice just because of their age and experience. We need to think and judge rationally, and make the most suitable decision based on our actual situation and goals. At the same time, we also need to be humble and respect the experiences and opinions of others, but not be bound by their thinking and values.

For those who are destitute, we need to understand their plight and situation, but at the same time, we need to keep a clear head and not be affected by their negative emotions. We need to look for people and things that inspire us to keep moving forward, and grow and progress with them.

For those juniors who do not want to make progress themselves, we need to encourage them to be self-reliant and self-reliant, so that they can learn to face difficulties and challenges on their own. We can give them guidance and support, but don't solve problems for them. We need to make them understand that only through their own efforts and struggles can they truly achieve their dreams and goals.

Finally, we need to deal with interpersonal relationships rationally, not to easily believe the sweet words of others, and not to easily give unconditional benefits to others. Only relationships built through true understanding and trust will stand the test of time. When dealing with interpersonal relationships, we need to maintain a calm mind and respect the rights and opinions of others, while also protecting our own interests and dignity.