2024/1/1 Stay away from junk friends

Trash friends are those who will only take you to eat and drink excessively, frequently pull you to play games, and go to nightclubs. They overspend, borrow money, watch low-value videos, are jealous, complain, hate, watch what they shouldn't see, listen to what they shouldn't hear, and say what they shouldn't. If you associate with these people for a long time, you will also become like a salted fish, spitting lotus flowers, swearing dirty, holding your mobile phone every day, sluggish spirit, and losing your fighting spirit.

In fact, the negative effects of being around junk friends are very serious. They may make you lose your ambitions, your fighting spirit, your goals, your dreams, and destroy your future. Momentary procrastination and laziness, shirking responsibility, and finding external reasons will often make you develop the habit of lifelong laziness. When a period of waste is over, you may unconsciously fall into a long-term malaise.

I think that my awareness ability is relatively strong, and my energy field is not so weak, but it is still difficult to avoid being consumed, weakened, and dragged down by some people around me. And for those who have no awareness ability, weak energy field, easy mood fluctuations, not much money, and thin skin, they should pay more attention to the quality of their interactions with the people around them.

In interpersonal interactions, there is a so-called "junk friend" who usually induces you to indulge in an unhealthy lifestyle such as overconsumption, indulging in games, and nightlife. Frequent association with such people may lead to vulgar speech, mental lethargy, and even gradually wear out your fighting spirit and pursuits.

There's no denying that being in the company of junk friends can have a hugely negative impact on an individual's ambitions, goals, and dreams. Once you fall into this lifestyle, you may lose your planning and pursuit for the future, and even lead to a long-term state of malaise.

Although some people think that they have strong awareness and a stable energy field, in real life, they may still be negatively affected by those around them. For those who lack self-awareness, have high mood swings, or are not in good financial condition, they should be more vigilant about the quality of their interactions with those around them.

Therefore, for the sake of personal growth and development, we should be wary of the garbage friends around us and learn to screen our social circles. Look for people who can make progress together and motivate each other to avoid being affected by negative energy. Only in this way can we better achieve our goals and dreams.

So, if you have such junk friends around you, you should cut ties with them as soon as possible to avoid being dragged down by them. If you find it difficult to give up, you can try to make some healthy life plans with them, such as exercise, study, travel, etc., to make life more meaningful. At the same time, you should also learn to screen your social circle and make more friends with people who can make progress together and motivate each other.

If you're already aware of the negative effects of being in the company of junk friends, now is the time to take action. First, you can try to have an in-depth conversation with them to understand why they chose to live the way they did. Sometimes, they may also lack self-awareness and purpose, or be influenced by some external factors. By understanding their motivations, you may be better able to help them change.

Secondly, you can invite them to participate in some meaningful activities together, such as sports, studying, traveling, etc. These activities can help them broaden their horizons and discover new hobbies that can help them get rid of an unhealthy lifestyle. In this process, you should also always maintain your goals and pursuits, and don't be led astray by them.

Finally, if you find that they still can't change, then it's time to consider disowning them. While this may make you feel sad or reluctant, it is more beneficial to your growth and development by surrounding yourself with people who can make progress and motivate each other. In the process, you can participate in more social activities, expand your social circle, and meet people who can bring you positive energy.

In conclusion, the quality of interpersonal communication is essential for an individual's growth and development. We should be wary of our junk friends around us and learn to sift through our social circles. Only in this way can we better achieve our goals and dreams.