2024/1/1 Adults should talk more boldly about money
In the adult world, talking about money is often a sensitive and unavoidable topic.
For those who dare to talk about money, dare to ask for money, and dare to charge, this is a sign of confidence and openness.
In their view, if the other person needs their help, but they use various means to avoid or pass the buck when talking about money, it means that the other party may not really want to associate with them, but want to take advantage of them.
In this situation, those who try to evade payment by pulling relationships, trapping, pulling feelings, reasoning, or even moral kidnapping may essentially just want to take it unilaterally, without really communicating with the other party, and without considering the interests and values of the other party. This way of behaving can easily lead to inequality and psychological imbalance in the relationship, which can trigger negative elements in the humanity of both parties.
On the contrary, those who dare to talk about money believe that high-quality relationships should be based on interests and based on value exchange. They firmly believe that a healthy, stable and mutually beneficial relationship can only be established on this basis if both parties are willing to talk openly about their interests. This kind of relationship requires not only the joint efforts and dedication of both parties, but also mutual understanding and respect.
In real life, we often encounter a variety of people and situations. Sometimes we need to help others, and sometimes we need help. In these cases, talking about money is not a shameful or embarrassing thing. Rather, it is a sign of maturity and self-confidence. Only those who dare to talk about money can gain more respect and trust in their relationships.
Therefore, we should abandon the stereotype that "talking about money hurts feelings" and talk boldly about money. Only in this way can we build truly equal, healthy and stable relationships.
In the adult world, talking about money is often a sensitive and unavoidable topic. For those who dare to talk about money, dare to ask for money, and dare to charge, this is a sign of confidence and openness. In their view, if the other person needs their help, but they use various means to avoid or pass the buck when talking about money, it means that the other party may not really want to associate with them, but want to take advantage of them.
Talking about money is not a shame or embarrassment. Rather, it is a sign of maturity and self-confidence. Only those who dare to talk about money can gain more respect and trust in their relationships. Therefore, we should abandon the stereotype that "talking about money hurts feelings" and talk boldly about money. Only in this way can we build truly equal, healthy and stable relationships.
In this competitive society, we all need to learn how to deal with people and how to deal with interpersonal relationships. Talking about money can be embarrassing or uncomfortable, but it's an important part of building healthy relationships. If we always shy away from talking about money, then we may miss out on a lot of opportunities and we may also get ourselves into unhealthy relationships.
Therefore, we should be brave enough to face the problem of money and talk openly about the benefits. Only in this way can we better understand each other's needs and expectations, and can we better balance our relationship. In interpersonal interactions, we should respect the rights and interests of the other party, and at the same time, we should also protect our own rights and interests. Only in this way can we build truly equal, healthy and stable relationships.