2024/1/2 Status and setbacks have always gone hand in hand
On the stage of life, a person's state and mental health are often complemented by the frustrations and mental capacity they experience. For those who have never encountered adultery in their work, and who are surrounded by many like-minded friends, their beliefs have been well preserved, and a series of careers have been completed in one go, and the achievements have been remarkable. Such people will shine and shine brightly throughout their lives.
However, for those who are ill-fated and often have to go through hardships, only a handful can make it through. They often encounter problems such as bad companies, bosses, parents, partners, etc., and it takes a lot of energy to deal with, digest and rebuild. In this process, only those with supernormal energy will gradually recover, while most people may be left in a state of scarcity and will not be able to regain their former glory.
There are often two states in life: one is to maintain an innocent mentality forever without setbacks; The other is to be able to maintain the mentality of a teenager after going through thousands of sails. In this world, survivorship bias exists. Therefore, we should always maintain respect for others and not look down on anyone easily. Perhaps, you are just a little luckier than others, and those who you think are inferior to you are not necessarily because they are not working hard enough, they may just grow up in different environments and go through different life journeys.
When we face all kinds of setbacks in life, we might as well try to adjust our mindset and learn to draw strength and wisdom from them. At the same time, learn to respect and understand others, and don't easily belittle or belittle others' efforts and achievements. Because in this world, everyone has their own story and journey, and it is only through mutual understanding and support that we can grow and progress together.
On the stage of life, we are all actors, playing our respective roles. Some people are naturally beautiful and attract attention as soon as they debut; Some people have gone through ups and downs and finally conquered the audience with their acting skills. But whatever the starting point, what matters most is how we approach our roles and how we face life's challenges.
Those who have never experienced setbacks may have grown up in good times and enjoyed the joy of success. But life is like a drama, there are highs and lows, and a smooth sailing life often seems monotonous and boring. On the other hand, those who have gone through the ups and downs, their lives are like an epic magnificence, full of twists and turns and tenacity.
It is those setbacks and difficulties that sharpen their will and make them cherish every opportunity more and work harder to pursue their dreams. They know that only through their own efforts can they climb out of the trough and stand on the top again.
In this world, everyone has their own story and journey. We should not judge other people's lives lightly, because what we see is only the tip of the iceberg. Everyone has their own survivorship bias, maybe you're just a little luckier than others, and those you think are inferior to you aren't necessarily because they didn't work hard enough, they may just grow up in different environments and go through different life journeys.
When we face all kinds of setbacks in life, we might as well try to adjust our mindset and learn to draw strength and wisdom from them. At the same time, learn to respect and understand others, and don't easily belittle or belittle others' efforts and achievements. Because in this world, it is only through mutual understanding and support that we can grow and progress together.