The idea that man is the sum total of social relations reveals the essential attributes of man in depth. Human thoughts and behaviors are influenced by the social environment, which shows that it is impossible for people to exist independently of social relations. The wealth of a person, that is, the material and spiritual wealth that a person has, is actually the average of the 5 people with whom he comes into contact most often. This perspective emphasizes the importance of social circles, which have a crucial impact on one's growth and development.

First of all, we need to be wary of social circles that can negatively affect us. With people who are stupid, incompetent, logically confused, or can't do anything well, our thinking and judgment can suffer. The negative thinking, words and actions of these people can corrode our minds and cause us to think and judge less. Therefore, we should actively choose to associate with those who are intelligent, capable, and have clear logic and judgment, so that we can constantly improve our abilities and levels under their motivation and guidance.

Secondly, we should follow the principle of the strong helping themselves, do not fantasize about saving the weak, and do not interfere with the trajectory of anyone's life. Everyone has their own life trajectory and growth process, and we should respect the choices and decisions of others. We should realize that we cannot save others, and that all we can do is save ourselves. If we want to be strong, we must first help ourselves and become stronger by constantly learning and improving our abilities.

We should go straight into the jungle society of strong alliances, only be with good people, and only choose the right people. Only by working with excellent people can we continuously improve our abilities and levels. If the person is right, everything is right. This perspective emphasizes the importance of human beings, and only by choosing the right people can we achieve success and happiness. Therefore, we should take the initiative to seek out those who share our values and goals, build a close relationship with them, and jointly pursue higher achievements and greater happiness.

The essential attribute of human beings is the sum of social relations, and a person's thoughts and behaviors are affected by the social environment. Therefore, we need to choose the right social circle, avoid being with people with negative energy, follow the principle of self-help of the strong, and do not interfere with the life trajectory of others. At the same time, we should also choose excellent people to work together and continuously improve our ability and level through strong alliances.

In addition, we need to recognize the importance of self-reflection. If we find ourselves in an unfavorable social circle, we should first reflect on our actions and thoughts to see if there is something wrong with ourselves. If we find ourselves with negative thoughts and behaviors, we should try to change them in order to better adapt to the social environment. It is only through self-reflection and change that we will be able to grow and develop better and achieve greater success and happiness.

In short, people are the sum of social relations, and people's thoughts and behaviors are affected by the social environment. Therefore, we need to choose the right social circle, avoid being with people with negative energy, follow the principle of self-help of the strong, and do not interfere with the life trajectory of others. At the same time, we should also choose excellent people to work together and continuously improve our ability and level through strong alliances. Finally, we also need to recognize the importance of self-reflection, and only through self-reflection and change can we grow and develop better, achieve greater success and happiness.