2024/2/29 Recognize yourself for your problems and faults
You have to tell yourself: lose, lose for a while.
Look at your own problems and faults, and work hard to change them, so you don't have to worry about your own shortcomings all the time.
I allowed myself to fall. Fighting, swearing, drinking, and pickling girls, these are all small problems, the point is, what have you learned from these things?
Learning something as meaningless as air is not worth falling, because I won't do anything boring!
From today onwards, you should think about how you can be a productive person, instead of fooling around.
If I hadn't seen the report of the unproductive man kneeling for thirty days, begging his daughter-in-law for forgiveness, I might still be fooling around with those people.
From this incident, I understood that no matter what you do wrong in the future, don't kneel in front of your daughter-in-law.
Or get out of here! Or hurry up and die! What's the matter of getting down on your knees?
You hurt a woman's heart, a woman is made of water, and if you make her sad, you are tantamount to killing her. So, if you do something wrong, you are wrong, don't make excuses, don't beg for forgiveness. You roll or you die is the best explanation!
On the road of life, we all encounter setbacks and failures. However, the key is how we look at these issues and how we can learn from them to grow and improve. Sometimes, we need to learn to be tolerant of ourselves, to recognize that failure is only temporary, and what is really important is that we have the courage to face our shortcomings and strive to improve.
First, we need to learn to self-reflect. Don't dwell too much on your shortcomings when faced with failure. We should face up to our problems and try to find ways to solve them. Only in this way can we continue to grow in the face of failure. Winning or losing is a part of life, and losing is not terrible, the key is that we learn from our failures and pave the way for our future lives.
Second, we need to learn self-discipline. In life, we may encounter various temptations such as alcoholism, gambling, addiction to the internet, etc. In the face of these temptations, we need to have self-control and keep reminding ourselves not to fall. We should understand that the Fall will only deprive us of motivation to move forward, and will not bring us any substantial gains. The point is what we can learn from temptation, and if we just indulge in something illusory, then this depravity is not worth it.
Again, we have to be ambitious. Starting today, we need to think seriously about how to become a productive person, not just mess around. We should set goals and work hard to achieve them so that we can achieve more on the road of life.
We need to learn to take responsibility. In relationships, we can make mistakes, but the key is to know how to face and deal with them. When we make mistakes, don't try to get down on your knees in front of others and ask for forgiveness. Either we bravely admit our mistakes and bear the consequences, or we strive to correct our mistakes and prove our resolve with our actions. Men must have backbone and responsibility, and hurting other people's hearts is a crime that we must try to avoid.
We must learn to be tolerant of ourselves, have the courage to face failure, be self-disciplined, set high ambitions, and have the courage to take responsibility. Only in this way can we go further and further on the road of life and become a productive person. From now on, let's re-examine our lives, face challenges bravely, and keep making progress for a better future.
Life is always full of ups and downs and twists and turns, and in the process of growing up, we will always encounter various difficulties and setbacks. However, it is these setbacks and difficulties that shape our resilient character and strong beliefs. On the road of life, we must learn to self-reflect, have the courage to face challenges, and continue to grow and improve. At the same time, we must also learn to be tolerant of ourselves, realize that failure is only temporary, and what is really important is that we have the courage to face our own shortcomings and strive to improve.
In the pursuit of success, we need to set ambitious goals, develop detailed plans, and put them into action. We have to believe that as long as we put in enough effort, we will one day achieve our dreams. In the process of realizing our dreams, we may encounter various obstacles, but as long as we have strong faith and perseverance, nothing can stop us from moving forward.
In addition, we must learn to cherish the people and things around us, and treat others with love and respect. In life, we may make mistakes, but the key is to know how to face and deal with them. When we make mistakes, don't try to get down on your knees in front of others and ask for forgiveness. We must have backbone and responsibility, and hurting the hearts of others is a crime, and we must try to avoid it.
On the road of life, we must learn to take responsibility. Whether it is for our lives or for our work, we must be responsible. Only in this way can we win the respect and trust of others, and we will be more and more stable on the road of life.
In short, we need to learn to be self-reflective, tolerant of ourselves, brave to face failure, self-disciplined, ambitious, and responsible. Only in this way can we go further and further on the road of life and become a productive person. From now on, let's re-examine our lives, face challenges bravely, and keep making progress for a better future. Let's work together to achieve our dreams and become the one who has a lot of potential.