Before you were a couple, the two of you were very good friends.

You often chat with penguins, speak unscrupulously, will have a lot to say, often talk until the middle of the night, you will take the initiative to chat with each other.

When chatting with each other, you can ignore many people, ignore many things, and a casual topic can make you two laugh like fools.

Slowly, I felt that the other party was important and couldn't do without each other, and your relationship was further developed and became lovers.

At first, love was not good, and if you didn't talk for a day, you felt uncomfortable. Talking crookedly all day long, slowly I feel tired, the number of chats is less, and every word I say has to be considered for the other party, for fear of making the other party angry.

began to care, who will take the initiative to pay attention to whom, and unanimously agreed that those who don't take the initiative don't care. There is no topic for chatting, you are silent at every turn, and those boring topics gradually make you feel tired. You feel that it was wrong for you to be together in the first place, that you were not suitable.

You might as well calm down and think carefully, when you are most sad and helpless, who is the first person who wants to be by your side?

Isn't it still the one you think penguins have nothing to say, and even if the penguin has nothing to say, you won't feel embarrassed to meet, right?

Don't think that the penguin has nothing to say, that is, the feelings are weak, the other party doesn't care, or something.

Who would have a penguin chat that is always so enjoyable?

You know, only strangers have a lot to say, and people who are really close to them can't say a lot. However, you have to know that each other is very important in each other's hearts, and don't think about what you have and don't have all day long.

As long as the relationship between two people is strong, there is no reason to separate each other. Don't think that you are not suitable, want to break up, and miss the past.

You know, no matter who you are, it's going to be like that when you are in a relationship.

Penguins have nothing to say, I don't think it really can contain everything.

It is not easy to have a long-term relationship, since you are in love, you must know how to cherish it.

Conflicts and bottlenecks in a relationship are normal and every couple experiences. In the process, you may encounter all kinds of problems, but the key is how to solve them and face them. Sometimes, communication is the key to solving problems. When you encounter a problem, you might as well face it bravely, communicate honestly, and express all the doubts and dissatisfaction in your heart. In this way, you can better understand each other and find solutions to problems.

Also, learn to adjust your mindset. In love, it is inevitable that the period of love will pass, but this does not mean that the relationship has weakened. As stated in the article, we only have a lot to say to strangers, and close people often have nothing to say. This is because when communicating with strangers, we will have a sense of self-protection and will not easily expose our hearts. And after getting along with close people for a long time, they already know each other very well, so many times there is no need to express emotions in words.

Furthermore, learn to cherish each other. In life, everyone has their own troubles and pressures, and at this time, the presence of the other party is particularly important. When you are at your saddest and most helpless, if someone is by your side and gives you strength, then the relationship must be worth cherishing. You must know that feelings require the joint efforts of both parties, and only by supporting each other can we get through the difficulties.

Learn to adapt to each other. Falling in love is a long process, and over time, the preferences, habits, and personalities of both partners will be revealed. At this time, you must learn to accept the imperfections of the other person, understand the shortcomings of the other person, and at the same time strive to improve yourself. Only in this way can you grow together and make your relationship stronger.

The bottleneck period in a relationship is something that every couple will experience, and the key is how to face and solve it. In this process, we must learn to communicate, adjust our mindset, cherish each other and adapt to each other. Only then will you be able to get through it and deepen your relationship. Let's work together to make love better.

In the face of the bottleneck period in love, we must not only learn to communicate, adjust our mentality, cherish each other and adapt to each other, but also learn to innovate. In the ordinary life, add some freshness to your relationship, such as a shared hobby, a surprise gift or a romantic date. All of these can rejuvenate your relationship.

Also, learn to be tolerant and understanding. In love, there will inevitably be some misunderstandings and frictions. At this time, you must learn to think from the other person's point of view, give the other party some time and space, believe in each other's emotional foundation, and believe that the other party will understand your intentions.

At the same time, know how to self-reflect. When you have a problem, don't always shift the blame to the other person, learn to find the cause in yourself. Only by having the courage to face one's own shortcomings can we better solve problems and make the relationship more stable.

Finally, learn to trust. Trust is the cornerstone of feelings, and only mutual trust can make feelings go further. In life, give the other person more trust and let the other person feel your love and support.

In short, when facing the bottleneck period in a relationship, as long as you have strong faith in each other and work together, you will definitely be able to get through the difficulties. Remember, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome, and as long as you have love in your hearts, you will be able to make it to the end.

In the process, you will become more mature, understand each other better, and cherish the relationship more. Relationships that have gone through bottlenecks tend to become deeper, and they will also make you know how to manage and maintain them better.

Finally, I hope that every pair of lovers can go through the bottleneck period hand in hand and make love better. As long as you have firm faith in each other and support each other, you will definitely be able to create your own happiness. Let's work together to make love eternal.