We all inevitably grow up, and it's a long and tortuous process. In this process, we will encounter countless setbacks and difficulties, as if countless cups of cold water poured down from our heads, making us feel a deep chill. In the face of these cold waters, we may feel hopeless and helpless in an instant.

In this world, there are always some people who take your despair as a laughing point and ignore your predicament. My dear, when they laugh at you, please don't forget that you deserve to be respected and that your feelings are real and valuable.

Yes, life will make you miserable and will make you fall into the abyss. However, believe that you can overcome it all. You can leave tears, but please don't kneel. Tears contain your tenacity and courage, and kneeling means giving up. You have to tell yourself firmly that you can get through this edge of darkness and wash away the embarrassment all over your body.

Every setback is an opportunity to grow, and every tear is a baptism. Please wipe the tears from your face, pat the ashes off your body, get up again, and keep walking. Even if you are covered with scars at the moment, you must believe that as long as you don't give up, one day, you will come out of this darkness and welcome the light that belongs to you.

In this process, you will slowly understand that those perseverance and efforts, including those endless pains, will not be in vain. They will make you stronger and more mature. It will also make you understand that every tribulation in life is a precious wealth on the road of life. So, my dear, please keep a firm belief and move forward bravely on the road of growth. No matter how much cold water and despair life brings you, you have to believe that you can overcome them. Please remember that those who laugh at you are just passers-by in life. And you are the master of your own destiny.

Go on bravely, until one day, you stand on the other side of success, looking back on the past, you will find that those days that once made you miserable have become the most valuable wealth in your life. And then, you will be grateful to yourself and to those days of perseverance and hard work that have allowed you to grow into a better person.

During this long and tortuous process of growing up, we may meet many like-minded friends who accompany us through unforgettable times. At the same time, there will be some people who leave us, perhaps because of different philosophies, or because of changes in life. However, we need to understand that each person's appearance and departure have a meaning, and they have all shaped us to varying degrees.

In the process, we also need to learn to be relieved and tolerant. No one in this world is perfect, including ourselves. We make mistakes and hurt others. However, every mistake is an opportunity for growth, and every injury is a baptism of the soul. We need to learn to accept our own imperfections and to forgive the faults of others. Only in this way can we truly let go of our minds and liberate our minds.

In addition, we must learn to cherish the present moment and seize every opportunity. Every moment in life is precious, whether it's in the joy of success or in the lessons of failure. We have to put our heart and soul into life, to experience, to feel, to grow. Don't be afraid to fail, because failure is the mother of success. Only after experiencing countless setbacks can we better understand ourselves and find our true path in life.

At the same time, we need to learn to adjust our mindset and stay optimistic. The cold water in life will make us more sober and recognize our goals. When we encounter difficulties, we must learn to believe in ourselves and believe that as long as we put in the effort, there will always be a day to turn over. We need to use those ridicule and doubts as motivation to move forward and make ourselves stronger in the face of adversity.

Finally, please believe that as long as we persevere, one day, we will achieve our dreams. Those days that have made us cry and hurt will become the most precious treasure in our lives. When we stand on the other side of success, looking back on the past, we will be grateful for the days that have been with us and made us grow into a better person.

So, dear friends, please keep a firm belief and move forward bravely on the road of growth. No matter how much cold water and despair life brings you, you have to believe that you can overcome them. Please remember that those who laugh at you are just passers-by in life. And you are the master of your own destiny. Go down bravely and welcome a bright future that belongs to you.