2024/4/22 Learn from each other's strengths or avoid weaknesses?
When I think of "learning from each other's strengths", I immediately think of the many parent-teacher meetings that my parents attended when I was a student.
What teachers often mention is to check and fill in the gaps, find the loopholes and fill them in time, so that the things that you don't understand and don't understand accumulate more and more, and this kind of thinking is really correct from a theoretical point of view.
The most effective and touching impression is one of my classmates. W's grades have been outstanding but not the top, in the learning of chemical acid and alkali salts part of the mastery, seemingly soft and weak little girl, it took a month, in addition to normal study homework, every night to the Internet to check the relevant information and part of the test questions stubbornly, repeatedly study the brushing questions, and finally almost to the full score, so that the exam again to the first grade.
This kind of action immediately after a problem arises and is immediately effective, this little girl is decisive and brave enough, smart and tenacious enough, and it is natural to have results. But after all, not every student can be calm and persistent enough, and more often than not, they can't make up for the "shortness", but become shorter and shorter.
I remember my unbearable high school physics, and I am immersed in all kinds of theorems and formulas that are still extremely gloomy and boring when I think about it now, and I am tired of analyzing circuit faults in various motion processes. For me, it was unspeakable pain and the boredom of staying out of it.
It varies from person to person, but for me, I am indifferent to language and interested in logic. When you feel "short" again and again, and you really can't continue to "make up", or after "making up", you will have a little bit of growth but are physically and mentally exhausted, and you can't insist on it, don't like to force each other to look at each other and smile, and continue to explore in your favorite field.
Even a succession of setbacks won't stop me from continuing. Of course, not only do we need students, but we also need to be mentally prepared to be mediocre because of the other party's "shortness", since we can't be as strict with ourselves as others, then we have to accept the mediocre overall grades, because everything has a price.
I remember an ordinary peasant woman, with her own traditional embroidery kung fu out of the country, although only this one specialty but precipitation to play to the fire, the peak, this opportunity in the field of expertise, "Yanglong" is not only a recognition, a kind of achievement is a kind of luck. Because, how many people go around and around, looking for and looking for many constraints and restrictions, and finally have no chance to find or engage in their own expertise. Through long-term hard work and unremitting efforts, if there is an opportunity for the shortcomings to develop and grow, we can make up for the "shortcomings", which is a reversal of the ability, and it is an unimaginable effort for ordinary people. If you can find your own field, then continue to cultivate it, and the same effort may make it easier and more enjoyable. In the whole process, even if it is darkness, frustration, difficulty and difficulty, everything will no longer become an obstacle, but a relief after overcoming.
I think I was lucky to have come across so many interesting books at the right age, registered my own author account at the right opportunity, and met the male and female protagonists of my story one by one in the best youth. I thought back to my "long" and "short", and my strength was that I was patient enough to be able to write a 4,000 to 5,000 chapter. My shortcoming is that I can only guarantee one or two more changes a day, and I write three more when I am happy, but I am also quite annoyed, especially I want to write seven or eight more times a day, but I have to admit that my energy is limited, so I should do the right thing at the right age.