"Do you think I was right to do that?"

In the examination room, someone copied the answers, did not cooperate, but sued the teacher after refusing - is this right or wrong?

Regarding the girl's question, Xu Zhe gave an answer that did not match his apparent age: "It depends on what kind of values it is." ”

"Values?"

"There are a lot of things in life that need to be measured, and choices need to be made because that means different values. If you think the most important thing is fairness and principle, then you should report it. But if you feel that relationships are more important, then you should turn a blind eye. ”

Song Xingye stopped, looking thoughtful.

The girl whispered: "Jiang Wenyi said that it was a monthly exam, not a college entrance examination and not a high school entrance examination, why can't she fool her parents, anyway, it won't hinder me...... I've been thinking for the past two days, and what she said seems to make sense. ”

Xu Zhe: "Different values, each value is a truth. She will feel that suing the teacher is worse than cheating, because it is very unjust. You value the principle of fairness, while she values relationships and righteousness. People don't have the same values, and that's the way it is. ”

Song Xingye suddenly raised his head, stared at him, and asked, "Then do you think she is more right, or am I more right?" ”

Xu Zhe: "In the long run, both of you will suffer. She may suffer from interpersonal relationships, but she suffers from not being principled. ”

Song Xingye: "No, I just want to ask you, what do you think ......?"

Xu Zhe: "Of course I appreciate you more. But you have to understand one thing, you are principled, and you can't expect others to think the same way as you, let alone expect others to admit their mistakes when they make mistakes. Not everyone is a good kid like you. ”

Song Xingye lowered his head, his mouth pouted slightly, and there was a grievance visible to the naked eye on his little face.

Although Xu Zhe had almost no interpersonal interaction in his previous life, he had seen some discussions about men and women on the Internet. He remembers that many people have concluded that girls are often more emotional than boys, and what they want is not to be reasonable, but to be able to stand on her side and show support to her. He feels that it is not only girls, but also boys many times, and that emotional feelings are more important than logical consummation.

So he said: "Anyway, in the final analysis, what Jiang Wenyi and the others say and think, that's their business." I think you're great, and both the teacher and your parents think you're great, and that's not enough......"

However, the other party's reaction was beyond his expectations.

Song Xingye was not comforted, but bit his lower lip, and his eyes turned even redder.

"But my mom didn't think I was great," she said. She said, I didn't do it right, because Jiang Wenyi's grandfather was the old leader of the hospital......"

Xu Zhe was stunned for a long time and asked, "What about your father?" ”

Song Xingye: "My dad thinks I'm right. But because of this, my dad and my mom got into a fight......"

Then she talked a lot about how her parents quarreled, and how well they had been before that, and how calm and warm the home was, but now......

And Xu Zhe thought while listening.

He realized that the reason why the girl couldn't think of it in the previous life was not only the interpersonal relationships at school, but also family problems. Unlike himself and Tang Lingfei, Song Xingye's parents are much more serious. It's easy not to quarrel, but a quarrel is a big rift that is difficult to bridge.

After the girl finished speaking, Xu Zhe concluded: "So the main problem of your parents is that they are too serious. ”

"Too serious?"

"Yes, it is not necessary to be so serious about living a lifetime. If you take a long-term view, the hurdle that you can't get over is likely to be just a small ditch. For example, you and your mother don't need to care too much about Jiang Wenyi. No matter what her family background is, it is her elders, and she herself is just a junior high school kid who has no say in front of her elders, and she won't get in the way. ”

Song Xingye couldn't help laughing: "Aren't we also junior high school kids...... Moreover, how do you know that Jiang Wenyi has no say in her family? ”

Xu Zhe spread his hands: "Children who don't study well don't have much right to speak, it's all like this." And you and your dad don't need to care too much about the principles, after all, it's just a monthly exam. Is there a kind of letting her cheat in the college entrance examination? What she can't do, usually cheating is just self-deception. So from any point of view, it's just a small thing. ”

Song Xingye: "Really? ”

Xu Zhe said with certainty: "Yes, spend every day happily, this is the big thing." Don't stare at me so strangely, to be honest, when you're in a good mood, you'll be more efficient in learning. ”

"When you're in a good mood, you're productive? Well, you're number one in the class. ”

Speaking of this, Song Xingye couldn't help but smile.

The two continued on their way. Before you know it, the rain around you seems to be getting quieter and quieter.

"Turn right here, well, two more streets, and you'll be in my neighborhood." Song Xingye pointed the way.

Xu Zhe: "Your home is so close to the school?" It's closer than my home, do I need a car? ”

Song Xingye stroked the end of his ponytail, looking a little embarrassed.

Xu Zhe: "Okay, Miss, forgive me for taking the liberty of it. You'll definitely need a ride. ”

Song Xingye raised her hand and wanted to hit him, of course, it was the kind of joking - but she suddenly froze before she could shoot. Although it was only her first year of junior high school, she remembered that she had not laughed and played with others like this for a long time, so that she was not used to it now.

However, Xu Zhe didn't seem to notice her unnatural movements.

He said, "If you are unhappy in the future, you can also tell me about it." It doesn't have to be me, of course. As long as you can talk, it's good to talk about unhappy things with people. Confiding is a kind of venting that will make you feel a lot more comfortable. ”

Song Xingye nodded, and pulled the strap of the schoolbag with both hands. She looked at the side face of the young man beside her, and then realized that the rain around her was indeed much lighter.

It's just that there is an umbrella all the time, so she can't detect it.

After being quiet for a while, Song Xingye suddenly asked, "Do you think that I am too rigid?" ”

Xu Zhe: "No one is perfect. You're good-looking, you have good grades, and your family is good. If the character is still particularly perfect and exquisite, isn't it a bit too much? ”

Song Xingye covered his mouth with one hand, but he still couldn't stop the happy smile.

I continued walking, and after walking for a few minutes, I entered the neighborhood where the girl's house was.

Xu Zhe sent her downstairs to his home.

By this time, the rain had stopped.

"You go upstairs, I'm going home, see you next week." After saying goodbye with such a simple sentence, Xu Zhe turned around and left.

But Song Xingye didn't walk in immediately.

She stood at the door of the unit building, watching Xu Zhe's back as he gradually walked away.

The rainbow is like an arch that spans heaven and earth. And the boy greeted the golden light of the sunset, as if he had walked into a rainbow.

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