As Song Xingye said, the learning experience she shared, in addition to carefully completing homework and listening to lectures, is a wrong question book. Some parents took the initiative to ask if they needed extracurricular tutoring classes, but the girl just shook her head and said that she did not report.

After Song Xingye finished speaking, it was Xu Zhe's turn.

He walked over to the podium and looked at the group of adults below who were listening carefully, feeling a little pressure.

In particular, one of them is his own father.

Xu Guowei was sitting in his place at this time, in the middle of the first row, the closest place to the lectern. And next to my dad is Song Xingye's mother.

Xu Zhe didn't look at his father's face again, but deliberately put his gaze into the distance. After a little deliberation, he spoke:

"First of all, I want to make a disclaimer, that is, the learning experience I am going to talk about next may not be suitable for everyone. If you want me to say, the most important thing in learning is motivation and habits. Motivation, that is, why do you want to learn? It's not a false phrase that can be fooled. Everyone's interests and hobbies are different, and the long-term life plan is also different. The most important core question for every student is what kind of person you want to be in the future – if you can think clearly about this core question, whether it is right or wrong, you must first have a self-formed answer, and then you can generate motivation. ”

"Studying for yourself, in order to find a good job in the future? Parents always say this, but students don't have a specific concept of this kind of thing. Students have no concept of how to support themselves and how to adapt to this society. And the fact in front of us is that it doesn't seem like you can succeed if you work hard, but it's definitely comfortable not to work hard. ”

When Xu Zhe said this, a few parents in the audience laughed, but more parents still frowned.

"So like I said, the most important thing is for students to develop a motivation, a conscious awareness. Because if there is no consciousness, no matter how much you supervise, it will actually be half the effort. And when it comes to finding motivation, everyone's situation is very different. ”

At this time, a parent asked, "So where did your motivation come from?" ”

Xu Zhe felt a hint of pressure. He realized that the answers he gave at the moment might affect some parents, so as to determine what kind of preaching some of his classmates would hear tonight.

Of course, he also knew very well that in fact, most of the preaching was meaningless.

Xu Zhe replied: "It's just that you have something you really want to learn." I'm not talking about the knowledge in junior high school textbooks, but about what I want to develop in the future. I want to study programming and computer science in the future, so I will make a long-term plan. But I'll be serious, it's useless if you go home and urge your child to choose a major, because my interest is spontaneous, not my parents. That's why I said at the beginning that my experience may not be suitable for everyone, and maybe not for most students. ”

Another parent couldn't help but ask, "Why a computer?" Do you think this area has a future in the future, or are you interested in it? ”

"There are two reasons for both. I think I might have a better chance of learning computer science. On the other hand, I've always been interested in programming. Think about it, describing a logic in code, building a system out of logic, making it work automatically, and implementing your vision, and it's like going from knowing the world to changing the world. Of course, interest is the best teacher. If you are not interested in the idea of changing the world with logic, you can't expect to impose this interest on your children. It's not just code, if you want your child to agree with the meaning of learning, it's useless to just rely on hitting, scolding, and urging. ”

Speaking of this, Xu Zhe paused slightly, observing the expressions of the parents. Then he decided to move on.

"Interest needs to be cultivated, motivation needs to be self-founding. So what else can parents do? Supervision, parental supervision is actually useful, that is, to help students develop good habits. In this regard, what Song Xingye said just now is very good......"

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The parent-teacher conference is over.

However, many parents did not leave immediately, but stayed in the classroom, discussing with each other how to educate their children. Among them, Xu Zhe's father and Song Xingye's mother are naturally the core surrounded by other parents.

"How the hell did you educate?" An old brother asked, "That kid doesn't look like a junior high school student at all when he speaks on stage, he feels so mature!" ”

Another eldest sister chimed in: "He is not consciously or unconsciously, your child seems to have figured everything out, thought it through, and spoke in a set way." If he hadn't looked like a child, I would have thought it was the teacher just listening to what he said! ”

"Haha, I don't know much about this, I usually don't control him strictly." Xu Guowei said with a smile.

"Free range?"

"Yes, it's basically free-range."

"That's so worry-free, that's great......"

In this way, in the words of envy, Xu Guowei couldn't help but float a little. It's a big man, and the corners of his mouth have never been closed.

The surrounding parents gradually dispersed.

The lady sitting next to her suddenly said, "Xu Zhe, this kid, it's really not simple." I heard my daughter say that before school started, when you were traveling, he seemed to have saved a car of people? ”

Xu Guowei was stunned: "My daughter told you?" ”

"Yes, my daughter Song Xingye is at the same table as your son."

"Oh, I see. I'm sorry I don't know, but what do you call it? ”

"My name is Li Caixia. Is it true that my daughter said? ”

"It's true, he ......" Xu Guowei was also a little stuck for a while, "I haven't really figured out how this kid did it." He sat with us, in the middle of the carriage, some distance from the driver. But when the driver had a heart attack, he ran over all of a sudden. No one else noticed anything unusual about the driver, and he had already pressed the brakes. ”

Song Xingye's mother, Ms. Li Caixia, nodded, thoughtful.

And at this moment, Xu Zhe came over and slapped his palm on the table: "Dad, we should go." ”

Xu Guowei: "Huh? ”

"It's all done, let's go," Xu Zhe looked at the short-haired aunt next to him again, and said with a smile, "Hello Auntie, classmate Song Xingye was just talking to the teacher about the class cadre arrangements for the next semester." Do you want her to be a class leader? ”

Aunt Li: "The teacher wants her to be the class leader?" ”

Xu Zhe smiled: "She was a little hesitant. Why don't you talk to them too? ”

He deliberately lured Song Xingye's mother away, just to prevent his father from talking too much with others, and then told everything in the computer city casually. Xu Zhe didn't want to reveal that he had bought a computer right now.

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