Chapter 496: Pluck Your Hair
Ding Yamin was left to eat after arriving at his grandfather's house, and after eating, he chatted with his grandfather for a while, and then got up and went home.
On the way, he was still thinking about going back to his mother to ask again, and then he received a call from Guan Jiao.
"Ding Yamin, did your parents tell you anything when you went home?"
"I was about to ask you, my mother said that your family does not agree with us getting married after graduation, do you know what's going on?"
There was silence on the other side, which made Ding Yamin couldn't help but feel a sudden burst in his heart, and hurriedly asked, "What's wrong?" What's going on? If you tell me something, I will definitely help if I can. ”
didn't need Ding Yamin's help, but what Guan Jiao's mother said made her feel sad.
She always thought that her mother loved her very much, because she had not been particularly partial to her brother since she was a child, and she had never lost her materially. only said one sentence when she was admitted to college, "Jiaojiao, you are much older than your brother, and when you graduate and earn money, your parents don't want your money, you just need to remember to help pull your brother." ”
It's not a big deal, isn't it normal to be the sister's first worker, give his brother some pocket money, buy him some clothes and something?
She said yes and didn't take it seriously.
Who knew that as soon as I came back today, I heard about one thing, the cousin of her second uncle's family was married some time ago, not counting the so-called three golds such as gold rings, gold earrings and gold necklaces, and the cash bride price was 66,000.
It just so happens that my cousin's in-laws are in the same village as Ding Yamin's grandmother's family, and they are also members of the same clan. Among the people who came to make a marriage that day was Ding Yamin's own uncle.
Guan Jiao's mother thought that her cousin's condition would be 66,000, so a college student like Jiaojiao in her family should not be at least 88,000?
And she can't get married after graduation, and she has been studying for so many years, and she married someone else's family before she can earn money for her family, so wouldn't she suffer a loss?
She had to work for five or six years, and then get married when her brother was admitted to college and stabilized.
Thinking so in her heart, when everyone chatted and asked about Guan Jiao at the dinner that day, she also said this.
When he went back that afternoon, Ding Yamin's uncle called Ding Yamin and told him about his mother
Let's not talk about what Ding Yamin thinks, Guan Jiao herself is extremely uncomfortable. It turns out that the so-called bowl of water is even, and everyone is treated equally, and it is only in the case of no entanglement of interests, and once this happens, it is that if you don't want to think about it, you will tilt the scales towards your son.
Guan Jiao doesn't understand, isn't it your responsibility to raise a son?
If you don't get the money you spent on me back, you feel like you're losing it, then what's that?
Is it treating me as an investment, and if there is no return, it is not worth it?
Guan Jiao's whole heart sank to the bottom, pulling out the cold.
Ding Yamin hung up Guan Jiao's phone, and he was also uncomfortable.
When I got home, I didn't wait for my mother to speak, and said, "Guan Jiao just called me and asked me to tell you two that her mother is her mother, she is her, she won't listen to her mother, and she won't ask for a bride price of 80,000 or anything." As for her brother, it was her parents' responsibility, and it had nothing to do with her. ”
Ding's father and mother were stunned, the couple looked at each other, and after their hearts were finished, they couldn't persuade them to break up.
Alas.
The two sighed together, and Ding Yamin was puzzled, "Isn't it good for us that Guan Jiao said this?" Why are you still sighing? ”
Ding's father glanced at his son with complicated eyes, but he didn't say anything.
Ding's mother said with a serious face, "I'm worried about Guan Jiao's child, there is such an unconscious mother, it will be enough for her to entangle in the future." ”
"That's right, her parents are really, how can this be? Is raising a daughter just to help her son? Who is it? ”
The two husbands and wives looked at the indignant and innocent stupid son, but they didn't answer his words.
Waiting for Ding Yamin to wash, Ding's father asked Ding's mother, "What did you mean by what you just said?" Why did you speak for Guan Jiao? Even if you don't persuade him to break up for the time being, you can't stand on Guan Jiao's side. ”
Ding Mu looked at him coldly, "Let me say anything, you are very good at this abacus?" In case your son resolutely refuses to break up, he will definitely marry Guan Jiao, so isn't my opposition now just planting a thorn in his heart? Or, this stupid boy didn't open the door with his mouth, and told Guan Jiao what I objected to, and when they got married in the future, then my mother-in-law wouldn't want to have a good relationship with her daughter-in-law. ”
After speaking, she glared at Ding's father again, "If you want your son to do anything in the future, you can tell him directly, don't pull me." ”
Ding's father muttered in a low voice, "Then how can it be done, I have such a good relationship with my son, don't you have to argue if you oppose it?" A dispute doesn't affect the peaceful coexistence of the two of us, hey, what are you doing? ”
Ding Yamin went out to wash, and when he came back, he found that his parents were fighting in the hall, no, to put it simply, it was actually his mother who was beating his father's hair unilaterally.
He stood aside and watched for a while, and couldn't help but remind his mother, "Mom, be careful, there is only a handful left on my father's head, why don't you leave a few for him."
"Son, pull your mother away."
Ding Yamin turned around and left, "I can't take care of your husband and wife's affairs, I'm sleeping." ”
The next day came the twenty-seventh day of the new year.
Yang Yan had to go back to her house to prepare for the New Year, and before leaving, she told Yang Dan, "If the second brother and sister-in-law come over today, you can't quarrel with them again." How these two families are going has no effect on us, but my parents will not be happy, plus it is the New Year."
"I know."
Yang Dan interrupted her sister's words, loaded all the clothes, snacks, cartoon books for her nephew on the car, and then watched her ride out of the yard, then went home and put on an apron and started cleaning.
Because her father and sister have bought a lot of things, and she doesn't plan to stay at home for the New Year, so she won't prepare the New Year's goods.
was scrubbing with a rag inside and out, and her second brother and sister-in-law came with their little nephew.
"Sister-in-law."
Her second sister-in-law was always unstable in pregnancy when she first got married, and she had two natural miscarriages, and then she raised her body for almost a year before she conceived this little nephew, who is eight years old this year, looks like an eyeball, and the baby can't.
Influenced by his mother, this child doesn't come to his grandmother's house much, and he is naturally not particularly close to Yang Dan's sister-in-law. It can be said that Yang Dan and her sister's nephew are more familiar than this little nephew.
However, after all, it was her nephew, and she also prepared three copies of things when she came.
"There's chocolate and comic books in the house, would you like to check them out?"
The little nephew agreed, called grandpa and grandma again, and ran happily into the house.
Second Brother Yang was carrying a large piece of pork in his hand, and Second Sister-in-law Yang was carrying a bag in her hand, which seemed to contain soybean milk powder or something, which was obviously given to Mother Yang. (End of chapter)