After eating, Zhao Sheng accompanied the teacher Yu Zhongbo to drink tea for a while, and walked by a can of old tree tea that Yu Zhongbo's old friend recently gave him.

After going out, getting in the car, and starting the car, Zhao Sheng said casually with some sighs: "The teacher's state is better than I thought, to be honest, it is much better than my psychological quality." ”

"The people of Professor Yu's generation have all gone through strong winds and waves, and their mentality must be very good."

Teacher Tang nodded and said.

"yes, unlike me, what I'm best at is slumping."

Zhao Sheng said self-deprecatingly.

It's just an exaggeration to say that it's an exaggeration, but while you have ideals and ambitions, it's also true that you want to live a good life.

Therefore, if you are wholeheartedly devoted to that or something, you can't do it for your concubines.

"I'm afraid you're asking a little too much of yourself."

Teacher Tang smiled and said when he heard this.

In her opinion, Zhao Sheng can't talk about slump in any aspect.

"The teacher just asked me when I was going to get married."

Zhao Sheng said casually, seemingly unintentionally.

"And what do you say?"

Teacher Tang smiled slightly, looked at Zhao Sheng and said, although the two had already discussed this matter, she still wanted to know what Zhao Sheng was thinking now.

After all, with the current state of relationship and life that can be said to be perfect between her and Zhao Sheng, she doesn't want anything to destroy this state.

Of course, there are some things, some small disagreements, and that's normal.

But for such a major event as marriage, it is necessary to reach an agreement.

"After this year, you can start preparing to get married next year."

Zhao Sheng said very realistically.

Actually, to be honest, it's just because Zhao Sheng doesn't lack anything now, his wealth is free, and his girlfriend is an almost perfect good woman like Mr. Tang, otherwise, he doesn't want to get married.

Reluctance to marry is the nature of boys.

Since ancient times, men's willingness to marry has been much lower than that of women, and men's willingness to have children is far lower than that of women, because men need to pay a great price in order to get married.

For example, the economic costs, including the bride price, the house, the raising of a woman, the raising of children, the adoption of a woman's parents and other relatives, exist at home as a money-making machine, and if the man does not get married, the money does not need to be paid at all. So now it's only in the one-child family, the old people who still have family concepts are urging the baby to get married and have children, if it is a family with several children, one of the children has been married and has children, and the father and mother have become grandparents, and they are no longer urging another baby, and he is free to let himself go.

It is women who want to get married more, because women can benefit from marriage, and women can also benefit from having children.

The reason is that women will hope to improve their class by getting married and having children.

How many women are looking forward to marrying into a wealthy family.

How many women hope that their spouses will pay more money to satisfy their consumption desires.

How many women hope that the blind date will help them repay their online loans.

How many women look forward to their sons getting ahead and then taking them over to enjoy the blessings.

How many women are more eager than their husbands to send their babies to learn this, learn that, make up for this, make up for that.

In the past few years, when tutoring and make-up classes were popular, some people counted that the vast majority of people who signed up for classes for dolls were women, and the vast majority of chicken babies were baby mothers, men actually didn't care about the doll's grades, and men preferred to raise children, because they felt that no matter how hard the baby worked, it would be difficult for him to rise to the next level, and he would not be able to gamble on his fate if he paid energy to chicken baby.

But women look forward to relying on others to change their fate, in the past, they looked forward to their parents, boyfriends, and husbands, and after they were dead to the above people, they looked forward to their sons, daughters, and daughters' boyfriends, but they didn't look forward to themselves anyway.

For example, the ancient movie "The Red Lantern Hangs High" is a very practical reflection of what men think about marriage and women, of course, this is triggered from the perspective of the lord of feudal society.

In the feudal era, as long as you made good money, you could marry a lot of women.

For example, in the movies.

The first wife, helping her career, is the right person, it doesn't matter if she likes it or not, and satisfies her desire to conquer the world.

The second wife, obedient, was hungry for herself, and there was nothing she should not do, satisfying her anxious vanity and feeling of respect.

The third wife wanted to try new tricks and test the boundaries of her rights, so she married a popular actor to satisfy the world she had worked hard for and the hopelessness of squandering.

This feeling is like: you are waiting for the people, and they are still worshipping there, but they don't know that the beauty is already under the labor and management.

The fourth wife, beginning to wake up, wants to pursue some human yearning for wisdom, marry a schoolgirl, and be in awe of knowledge.

You study hard, and in the end, you will be my aunt's wife, and show off in a different field.

At the same time, they used to knock their feet, light the lamp, and order food, so that these women became blind, and only circled around the lord alone, not only to marry home, but also to conquer in all directions.

The lord is the center of this house, so he asked you if you have the motivation to make money and the motivation to marry a wife?

In feudal times, it was the exploitation and oppression of women by men.

In modern times, on the contrary, more often than not, it is an equal deal.

What's more, women take advantage of men, and this idea has been deeply implanted as early as when Cinderella's fairy tale was read by girls.

Tell women that by getting married, you can reap other people's wealth, and you can reap other people's talents.

Girls encounter this situation and are of course quite willing to get married.

Is this different from the feudal era?

Of course!

In ancient times, there was no equality, only the share of forced trade, and there was no choice.

In modern society, the status of men and women, at least in our country, is already very equal.

The reason why many girls want to join a wealthy family is not because they have no way to live, but because they just want to easily cross the class through marriage.

When ordinary people are still limited to marriage at the level of love and love, some people have long regarded marriage as a secret book to cross classes and a career to plan.

"Doctor Zhao, you're not afraid of getting married, are you?"

Teacher Tang smiled and said to Zhao Sheng.

"I'm not scared at all."

Zhao Sheng said.

Comes with two suites in Zhongdu, her appearance, figure, and temperament are comparable to female stars, empathetic, smart and lovely, such a woman, as long as she is not a eunuch, she wants to get married when she meets her.

So Zhao Sheng is telling the truth, he can't wait to get married to Mr. Tang early.

"That's good, then wait for the New Year, and then you can start preparing."

Teacher Tang nodded, to be honest, she is not afraid of marriage.

She is not dissatisfied with Zhao Sheng, saying that career, Zhao Sheng has reached the ceiling level in the medical field, and in the high-end medical department, he is also thriving.

Speaking personally, Zhao Sheng is also a handsome guy, with a very good temperament, quite responsible, and does not mess with the relationship between men and women.

So she has no reason to be afraid of marriage.

(End of chapter)