Although it is not so exaggerated, Tao Yao still felt very happy when she heard Tao Yu say such words, and she felt that someone could finally understand herself: "That's it." ”

Taoyu continued: "I think you have done a very good job in this matter, I won't hide it from you, ask yourself, even if something happened to the Wu family at that time, you just brought people to our house, I have to think twice, and I may not be willing to nod and help with this."

You were able to think of asking the prefect's young lady for help, it can be seen that you also know that there will be trouble in the future, but if this is the case, you are still willing to take this risk to help her, this heart can be praised, admirable and respectable. I can't help but praise you. That is to say, you have the courage to take on such a thing, and you are willing to take on such a thing. It can be seen that your father, uncle and grandfather love the people like children in our Taoyuan, and you have been educated so well because you have heard and seen them. ”

Tao Yao listened to such intimate words, biting her lip to finally hold back her tears.

Tao Yu saw that Tao Yao had just said that Chu Ping's anger had gradually dissipated, so he said slowly: "But in fact, what Chu Ping said also has his own truth. ”

Tao Yao heard Tao Yu turn her head to speak for Chu Ping again, and couldn't help but raise her head to look at Tao Yu with her brows twisted, only to see Tao Yu with a kind smile on her face, and said softly: "He actually praised you, the first sentence is, he said that he admires your courage." ”

Tao Yao said disdainfully: "But his second sentence is 'but'." ”

Whatever good words are, once followed by "but", they will be tasteless.

Taoyu just continued to smile and said, "Xiaoxiao, you must know that this man and woman are very different. Men like to be factual and reasonable, while women often value men's attitude and determination more.

So often women want to listen to love words, and men are talking about frogs. A woman wants to hear that he loves you, you love him, and a man will only croak, and in the end, the chicken and the duck will talk about it, that's the truth. ”

Tao Yao seemed to understand: "What do you mean?" ”

Taoyu patiently said to her: "Actually, you see, if Chu Ping can be like me, listen to you finish the whole story, first care about whether you are frightened today, comfort you not to be afraid, praise you for doing a good job, encourage you to make persistent efforts, and then analyze the pros and cons with you so carefully, and clarify his thoughts, will you be able to listen to it, at least not as angry as you are when you talk to him?"

Actually, what Chu Ping said, if I let your brother-in-law listen to it, he may also feel that everything he says makes sense, but you don't like to listen to it. That's because the reason why you are willing to talk to him about the things about the girl of the Wu family is that you also have expectations in your heart, you want to get praise and comfort from him, and hope that he will stand aside with you, recognize you, and affirm you. But instead of giving you what you want, he gave you some advice and preaching.

So, you are angry because he didn't give what you wanted, and you don't want what he gave. ”

Tao Yao was stunned, savoring what Tao Yu said, to be honest, Tao Yao didn't know. She thought that she was angry and born above board, because of his bad character, indifference and inconsistency, which disappointed herself, and she was angry. But in fact, Master Liu is like this, Zheng Qiaoyan is like this, and even Taoyu is like this, they don't want to help Wu Yan, but they can respect them, not only are they not angry, but they can still talk to them kindly, and even thank them for a little help, and they will not be a little angry with them, but Chu Ping saved himself at a critical moment.

And he just listened to his words, and he was so angry?

Tao Yao thought at first that it was because she was different from him, so the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

But in fact, deeper inside, the reason for his anger was not so high-sounding, just because what he wanted from him was not satisfied.

Tao Yu looked at Tao Yao, who was silent as if she was thinking deeply, and tentatively spoke again to comfort: "Actually, this is very common, and almost all men and women will have such things to a greater or lesser extent.

In fact, he has a sentence that is very right, you can't understand what he says, and he can't understand what you say, if you two don't quarrel, then who will quarrel?

If you ask me to help you spread the word, you want to say to him in your heart: I sacrificed myself for the girl of the Wu family, resisted everything, and was willing, but I am only a lady of the boudoir, and I have just experienced such a thrilling thing, and I am very afraid, I think you can comfort me, encourage me, and tell me that if it were you, you would be the same as me, on my side, and do the same thing with me.

And he wants to tell you: I really admire you, so brave, so responsible, so self-sacrificing to help your classmates. I'm willing to stand by you, and if it were me, I'd definitely help her, but I don't want you to be alone in a situation like today, putting yourself in danger. I see you in distress, I care about you, and I feel sorry for you. So I hope that if you encounter such a situation again, you can come to me, and I will definitely help you. Whatever happens in the future, let's face it together. In Hangzhou, you are no longer alone. I can be your support, stand side by side with you.

And if you were like me, and he talked to you like me, and he talked to you like me, what would you do today? ”

Tao Yao listened and said angrily: "If he really answers me like Sister Yu said, I will marry him today!"

But that's not the case at all, it's just your wishful thinking, he advised me not to meddle in my affairs, he looked down on me, he thought I was not doing well, he thought I was stupid, and he didn't conspire with me. ”

Taoyu smiled and said: "He loves the common people, you love one person, you are obviously very like-minded."

It's just that it's inconvenient for him to deal with Wu Yan's affairs as a man, and you will inevitably encounter danger when you face Wu Yan's affairs yourself. It is not good for each of you to deal with it, but if in the future, the two of you face Wu Yan's affairs together, these dilemmas will not be solved. That's why two people are better than one.

Besides, that kid is a person with few words, if he really dislikes you, just leave, you just had a fight, he was willing to escort you all the way over, and came in to apologize, in the face of my mother's troubles, it can be seen that he must have you in his heart. ”

Tao Yao bowed her head and was silent.

Taoyu saw that Tao Yao was still not convinced, but just sighed, and then said softly: "Xiao Yao, this man, he needs to be trained, no one is born to speak, and no man is born to understand the thoughts of his daughter's family."

Men need respect, women need love. He doesn't understand, which means that he hasn't had much contact with women, and he is still very immature and young, you have to train him slowly, and his life will be better in the future. ”