Chapter 114: Saints
Wu Yan looked at Tao Yao coming back with a cold face, and cautiously came forward with honey water.
Tao Yao took it and took a sip, raising her eyes in a little surprise, and then Wu Yan replied: "The tea that the girl brought back last time is finished." ”
It turned out that it had been drunk, and after such a while, Tao Yao seemed to have gotten used to the taste, but now she suddenly changed the honey, but she was a little unaccustomed to it, but she refused to let go, and only said: "It's just right to drink it, I was going to throw it away." ”
Wu Yan looked at Tao Yao's angry appearance, but couldn't help but ask: "Girl, did you quarrel with Gongzi Chu?" ”
Tao Yao was surprised that Wu Yan knew that she had never told her about it, Wu Yan looked at Tao Yao's expression, but only smiled back: "I went to the nursing home with the girl a few times, and I will hear a little about it." ”
Tao Yao also nodded helplessly, there may not be gossip from the place next to her, but the mouths of the old people and children in the nursing home must be indispensable to pout the two of them together.
It's just that now it sounds like Tao Yao is more depressed than happy, and she is a little lonely: "But I feel that he doesn't like me and doesn't want to marry me." It's just the gossip of those old people. ”
Wu Yan was a little surprised when she heard Tao Yao's lost words, and only asked patiently, "How did you say this?" ”
Tao Yao said: "I want him to go to the capital with me after he gets married, but he doesn't want to." ”
Wu Yan also heard Tao Yao talk about going to the capital for the first time, and only said: "Where you want to go in the future is a very big thing, I am afraid that the girl and Chu Gongzi will have to think about it, and then talk about it, I think the girl must have a reason to go, if Chu Gongzi does not want to go, there must be a reason why he does not want to go."
The girl told him her reasons, and listened to the son's reasons, and had to discuss it slowly, because this matter couldn't be solved by being angry. ”
Tao Yao felt justified when she heard this, but she was a little stunned: "However, when I was a child, no matter what happened, as long as my mother lost her temper, my father would follow her."
But Chu Ping is not like this, he will follow me in some things, and some things, he looks forward and backward and is very stubborn.
I don't think my father and mother are husband and wife, but at least I can see that my father actually loves my mother very much and cares about my mother.
I originally said this, and it was also instigated by Qiaoyan to let me test him to see how much he was willing to give up for me, but in the end, he may not love me at all, and he is not willing to give up anything for me. ”
Wu Yan frowned when she heard this, but she couldn't help but laugh a little, she only felt that Tao Yao was very cute, where to go in the future, such a big event, it was just to test others: "The girl thinks that she has read too much of those words, what loves beauty and doesn't love the country, that is, Tang Xuanzong rode the red dust concubine and smiled, and in the end, didn't Yang Guifei still die in Maweipo?"
Those things that fall in love at first sight, love to death, and become butterflies or something, look good, sound good, and touch the heart. Who's living like that?
There are a few people in the daughter's family who see that person is good, and they marry regardless of their family background, maybe there are, but they are also a minority, since the daughter's family is like this, the men are much more shrewd than women, and they don't look at those who are in love or love, or think about those lustful things for the sake of appearance; or for the sake of the family, so as to help oneself in the future; Otherwise, it is to marry a wife and marry a virtuous person, and live a better life in the future.
That is, those who can be seduced by beauty, will have a hot brain, live and die for you, if for the sake of the side, there are a few serious men who have no worries about themselves, not to mention that he is still the eldest son of the Chu family.
If the girl is for the sake of the future place, it is just a matter of discussing with him, if you listen to Miss Qiaoyan, you have the idea of tempting people's hearts, and you will not listen to you, and whether you love you or not, then whenever he says a word, or he hesitates for a moment, you will inevitably be angry, once you are angry and angry, then how can you talk about this matter?
I was born in a poor family, maybe it was different from Miss Qiaoyan's thoughts, which made the girl smile. ”
Tao Yao only felt that Wu Yan was very right, Qiao Yan was so young and vigorous, and she was a young and vigorous person, and she was less disciplined by her mother.
But when I heard her this time, I seemed to have fallen into a trick, and I was too willful and reckless towards Chu Ping.
"Then if it were you, what do you think you should do about it?" Tao Yao asked about Wu Yanlai seriously.
Wu Yan saw that Tao Yao didn't think she was verbose, and asked her seriously, and finally put her mind at ease, and said to Tao Yao: "I watched the girl go out for the first few times, and she was dressed exquisitely, and I hated to have to apply powder these times."
You expect him to be attracted to you in your words, listen to you in everything, indulge in you, but only act spontaneously, how can you get your wish? ”
When Tao Yao heard this, she wrinkled her eyebrows and said, "I don't want to attract him with his appearance." I am now smeared with grease and powder in front of him, will anyone in the future still live an ordinary life and dress up finely? It's not that you don't know me, that's how I usually live.
If you pretend to be virtuous and virtuous in front of him, if you can't pretend to be a lifetime, it's useless, I'm like this, he likes it if he likes it, and he doesn't like it if he doesn't like it. ”
Wu Yan smiled when she heard this: "That girl likes people if she likes them, and if she doesn't like them, she doesn't like them, so why should she be sad that he doesn't like you?"
If you don't like him if you don't like it, then if he doesn't like it, let's not talk about him, isn't it good to change someone? ”
When Tao Yao heard this, she pursed her lips and was silent.
Wu Yan smiled and quipped softly: "You are reluctant, you want him to like you, and you refuse to please him, you just blindly lose your temper and willfulness, so that he doesn't like it, haven't you read too much of the book?"
So how many men fall in love with a woman because they like her tantrums? Your father, there is no way, he is already married, and he can't divorce his wife, so he can only live on with it.
But aren't you and Uncle Chu still married? You can't take that on him.
If I meet someone in the future who I can deserve and who has a good character in all aspects, I will naturally dress up beautifully in front of him, advance and retreat in moderation, speak appropriately, and please him.
It's not that I want to pretend, as the girl said, but that the woman is a person who pleases herself, and if I really like him, I naturally want to behave better in front of the person I like, so that he can look at me and be happy, or just so that he can look at me more, or he will like me too, which is also good.
People's hearts are always like this, if you are really good to him, for his sake, he will naturally be really good to you and take care of your feelings. If you only think about your own good, over time, he will feel that his own thoughts and worries are not taken into account, and he will have to think about his own affairs all the time.
Then, in order for you to think about your plans, and he thinks about his plans for himself, he will naturally not give an inch, and many things will not be able to achieve a result.
But if you think of his needs for him and take care of them properly, he will naturally be able to spare his energy to care for your needs. ”
Tao Yao heard this in a trance, as if someone had told him before, it was Taoyu, Taoyu had talked to herself, it turned out that Wu Yan might be wiser than herself in the way men and women get along.
Tao Yao smiled: "If I worry about him, he worries about me, what's the point?" I hope that no matter whether I only think about myself in my heart or not, he only thinks about me, and puts me first in everything, and that is the best. ”
Wu Yan naturally heard Tao Yao's joke with her, and also joked with her: "That girl can easily stop living, go and read the book as soon as possible, there are such selfless saints there." ”