In the game, time flies.

At the end of the seventh game, Tang Yuan and Fu Xingwen were a little tired, and the two put down the game controller, picked up their mobile phones and looked at their unread messages.

Most of Tang Yuan's WeChat are New Year's greetings, and in addition, they are Wen Muxue, Su Xiaoxiao and Su Chuchu's WeChat.

Chinese New Year's Eve, Wen Muxue and Su Xiaoxiao are naturally accompanied by family, the former returned to Beichun, the latter returned to Rongcheng, as for Su Chuchu, it was more miserable, after entering the crew, he turned on the continuous rotation mode, there was no free time at all, and he could only spend the Spring Festival alone.

Tang Yuan replied to the messages of the third daughter and the New Year's messages of other people in turn from top to bottom, and after he finished all this, he glanced at Fu Xingwen next to him, only to see that the other party was holding his mobile phone and chatting with a girl named Li Wanqiu.

Seeing this name, Tang Yuan's eyebrows were slightly raised.

He is no stranger to the name Li Wanqiu, because Fu Xingwen resolutely chose the medical school of Nanshan University for the sake of this girl.

"How's it going?"

"I've been in college for half a year."

"Have you made any substantial progress with others?"

At this moment, Fu Xingwen was completely immersed in his own world, and suddenly heard Tang Yuan's voice, which immediately frightened him, and subconsciously buckled the mobile phone screen to the desktop.

"Forehead ......"

"That's it."

"It's pretty much the same as before."

Facing Tang Yuan's inquiry, Fu Xingwen responded with some vagueness.

"It's about the same as before?"

"It's been half a year, you won't be the same as before, right?"

"Delivering milk tea to others on a rainy day, buying sanitary napkins for others in the middle of the night, sitting silently in the corner and accompanying her for self-study, and even you didn't even tell her why you chose Sun Yat-sen University School of Medicine, did you?"

Tang Yuan moved the chair back, turning the direction of his whole person into an angle of facing Fu Xingwen, compared to the smile just now, Tang Yuan looked a little serious and serious at this time.

"Brother, I don't think the time is ripe......"

When Fu Xingwen saw Tang Yuan's posture like this, he inexplicably felt a little pressure, he didn't dare to look directly at Tang Yuan's gaze, and his tone was a little twisted.

Seeing this, Tang Yuan couldn't help but sigh.

What retribution!

I killed all sides in the love field and was invincible, but I didn't expect my cousin to become a licking dog of love.

"Brother, do you know that you are now in a big misunderstanding?"

Tang Yuan's expression suddenly softened, and his words became a little serious.

When Fu Xingwen heard this, he couldn't help but show a slightly puzzled look, he didn't know why Tang Yuan said this, and he didn't know what the misunderstanding Tang Yuan said in his mouth was.

"Brother, when many people are young and ignorant, they always like to use a masochistic way to create an illusion of infatuation, so as to make themselves stand on the moral high ground of feelings, so as to obtain a deformed sense of satisfaction and security."

"Whether you brave the heavy rain to bring her milk tea, or you run around the supermarket in the middle of the night to buy sanitary napkins for her, you may think that such a bridge in retrospect is as fierce as Qiao Feng's battle against Guangming Ding, Guan Yu Changbanpo seven in and seven out, but in fact, for the other party, milk tea is milk tea, and sanitary napkins are sanitary napkins, and they can't carry the emotions of landslides and cracks that you want to place on them."

"You've never been in a relationship, and the other person is your first crush, so you always want to express your love for it, and the result is often that you get stuck in a self-show and don't know it. Therefore, the memories of two people will be skewed, and those pasts that you feel are unforgettable, the other party often does not empathize, or even ignore. ”

Tang Yuan also came from a young age, and he had seen many young people gradually move from youth to maturity, and the misunderstanding that Fu Xingwen fell into at this moment was not only made by Tang Yuan when he was young, but also by the vast majority of young people.

Just because the girl he has a crush on gets closer to other boys, he feels that his world is falling apart, and he either gets drunk alone in the middle of the night, or asks his friends to party and indulge himself all night.

But in reality, is it really that sad?

Perhaps, it is indeed a little uncomfortable, but more often it is self-performance, self-abuse, and self-absorption.

In the end, even if you drink until your stomach bleeds, if the other party does not have your wingman to assist you, this matter may be just a trivial matter in the other party's world, like a pebble falling into the sea, and it will not make the slightest wave.

That masochistic infatuation can't move others at all, it can only move yourself.

This is the love of teenagers, when you like someone, you can't turn the other party into a part of your body, the other party says cold, this side of the heart is already frozen, the other party says sad, this side is immediately like a mourner, I feel that only more sad than the other party, can I achieve emotional resonance, lest I can't express my love.

This love sounds hot and brilliant, but in fact, no one can afford the value of another person.

"Brother, a truly healthy love is to have the courage to express your love, and at the same time you must learn to restrain your emotions, learn to restrain your desire to perform, don't lose yourself because of others, you must know that the true meaning of love lies in mutual attraction and like-mindedness, not chasing and attachment and self-touching."

"After you think about these things clearly, you have to touch your heart and see if you have more love for her over the years, or more desire, many people just confuse the two, thinking that it is love, but in fact it is desire that dominates."

Tang Yuan said a lot to Fu Xingwen, his uncle would not be able to tell Fu Xingwen these words, and his aunt would not be able to tell Fu Xingwen, only Tang Yuan was the right person.

Although it was a good thing to suffer more setbacks when he was young, Fu Xingwen had already invested too much in this relationship, Tang Yuan still hoped that this relationship could get a good result, even if it was not perfect, even if it could not have an ending.

After Fu Xingwen heard Tang Yuan's words, the whole person fell into silence.

Seeing this, Tang Yuan knew that Fu Xingwen had listened to his words, so he didn't bother the other party, but picked up his mobile phone again and chatted again with his three girlfriends.

What?

You tell me about love?

Sorry, we don't need that!

We are energetic, since we have the ability to take on a few more for the majority of male compatriots, we must be brave to shoulder the heavy burden and duty-bound, who makes us the most socially responsible!

After half a ring, Fu Xingwen ended his thinking, and at the same time threw a question at Tang Yuan: "Brother, how can you tell if it's desire or love?" ”

"Oh......"

"This question is actually very simple."

"Four words are enough to answer everything."

Tang Yuan came back to his senses, put down his phone and replied.

Hearing this, Fu Xingwen blinked his eyes and looked at Tang Yuan silently, waiting for Tang Yuan's answer.

"The first question, what is desire?"

"Four words: I want to C her!"

"The second question, what is love?"

"Still four words: C, I miss her!"

"Isn't it simple, got it?"

After Tang Yuan finished speaking, he threw Fu Xingwen a look of understanding, and then picked up the phone again and started playing again, while Fu Xingwen fell into thinking again.

After another half-ring, Fu Xingwen's eyes gradually became firm: "Brother, I figured it out, I definitely love Li Wanqiu, because I really miss her!" ”

"Since you miss her, then you tell her."

Tang Yuan stood up slowly, he looked at the sky outside the window that was gradually darkening, and patted Fu Xingwen on the shoulder: "Don't you know where her home is?" Didn't you always like to stand silently downstairs in her house as a watchman? When you finish the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, when it is close to midnight, you go directly downstairs to her house, call her, tell her all the things you have done for her over the years, and then tell her out loud that you like her! ”

After that, Tang Yuan was about to open the door, because he had already smelled the aroma coming from the other side of the restaurant, and it was obvious that their family's Chinese New Year's Eve dinner was ready.

"Brother, what if she rejects me?"

At the moment when Tang Yuan was about to open the door, Fu Xingwen suddenly asked again.

Tang Yuan looked at Fu Xingwen's appearance of suffering from gains and losses, couldn't help but roll his eyes, and said angrily: "If she refuses you, you can tell her that my brother earned more than one billion last year, and I am his only brother, you let her take care of it herself!" ”

"I still don't believe it, I can't handle things that can't be done emotionally, and I can't do it with money?"

After Tang Yuan finished speaking, he didn't talk nonsense to Fu Xingwen anymore, opened the door and walked out.

Made!

Life coaches should be tired!

Pack up and get ready for dry meals!

(End of chapter)