Jiangcheng, East Lake Villa.

Liu Yifei's uncle, Liu Xiaowen, was smoking a cigarette outside the balcony in the backyard.

"Big brother."

Hearing someone call him, Liu Xiaowen looked back and saw that it was his little sister Liu Xiaoli, who pressed the cigarette butt in the ashtray and asked suspiciously:

"What's wrong?"

Liu Xiaoli walked out of the house, wiped her hands with the apron hanging on her body, and said with some embarrassment:

"There's something I want to discuss with you."

"Well, what's the matter, you can say it."

"Well, it's Sissi's business, you also know that Sissi has come to this point now, it's not easy, but this circle is either advancing or retreating, and now Sissi basically has no room to go up."

As the old saying goes, "my mother is my uncle".

Hearing that it was his niece, Liu Xiaoguang couldn't help but be a little dignified, revealing a thoughtful look.

"Go on, I'll listen."

Liu Xiaoli told her eldest brother about her daughter's current status and resources in the entertainment industry, as well as her previous encounters in the crew of "The King of Kung Fu".

She really has no choice, for the sake of her daughter, she has to be like this, some time ago, her daughter was harassed, she tried everything as a mother but to no avail, that deep sense of self-blame and powerlessness, she never wanted to experience it again.

"So, it's still the help of that Sun Yi, the Sun Yi you are talking about is the young director who has been very popular recently, right?"

"Yes, big brother, you know him too?"

Liu Xiaowen nodded and explained:

"Well, you know, since Sissi entered this industry, she has inevitably paid attention to the news of this circle on weekdays. Well, anyway, people helped Sissi, you have to thank you. ”

"Well, that's what I know."

"And what do you think now?"

Liu Xiaoli hesitated, but still spoke.

"I think I'll find an opportunity to terminate the contract with Brother Chen this year."

Hearing Xiaomei say that she wanted to contact the contract, Liu Xiaowen nodded slowly, but did not say whether she agreed or disagreed, but lit a cigarette again and began to pace on the balcony, obviously weighing the pros and cons.

After waiting for a while, Liu Xiaowen stopped, turned to Liu Xiaoli and said slowly:

"Okay, I don't know much about this circle, but since you're so determined, then I support it."

"Well, wait a few years, I'll go to the capital and talk to Jinfei, but you also have to be mentally prepared, in business, when you two just returned to China, he helped him, and now you want to leave, it must be proper, our old Liu family, be kind, and can't let people poke the backbone in the back."

Hearing that the eldest brother agreed to help, Liu Xiaoli's hanging heart finally let go, and she quickly nodded and agreed:

"I understand this, and I will do it."

"Well, okay, it shouldn't be a big problem, although I haven't seen each other for many years, but this face, I guess I can give it to Near Fly."

The relationship between Liu Xiaowen and Chen Jinfei is not ordinary, the two families have some friendship in the previous generation, and they can be regarded as world friends, so when he was young, he and Chen Jinfei had a lot of cooperation in business, but in recent years, the two have chosen different industries, and they have a lot less contact on weekdays.

However, the friendship between the two families is still there.

This is also why, Liu Yifei recognized Chen Jinfei as her godfather when she was five years old, and Liu Xiaoli took her back to China just in time for Chen Jinfei to set foot in the film and television industry, so she began to support Liu Yifei.

Liu Xiaoli is also because of this reason, taking into account the friendship between the two families and Chen Jinfei's help at the beginning, it is not good to do ungrateful things, so she has always been undecided, and finally took advantage of this Chinese New Year to tell her eldest brother this idea, everything is also for the future development of her daughter.

Just when Liu Xiaowen and Liu Xiaoli were talking in the backyard.

The hero of the topic is still basking in the sun with his grandmother in the front yard.

The remarks about grandma to her mother just now were something Liu Yifei had never heard before. So after hearing these words, it made a lot of waves in her heart.

Her mother has always instilled in her the concept that "if women are independent, the world is wide." She has always been a guideline and bravely pursued her dreams and career.

But I heard my grandmother say that my mother still fell out with my father because she was too strong and pursued her career too much, and she lost her family, and she was a little puzzled, feeling very contradictory, and couldn't understand it at all.

I had to ask about my grandmother.

"Grandma, shouldn't women be independent, and shouldn't pursuing careers and dreams be the embodiment of an independent woman?"

Grandma looked at Liu Yifei's ignorant eyes, patted her hands with some distress, and said:

"That's right, I was full of energy when I was young, but the older I lived, the more I understood, doing this, putting the cart before the horse, everything must be mastered to a degree, to understand the balance."

"The pursuit of career and dreams is the embodiment of a person's value, the success of the career will make others look at you differently, and the realization of dreams will also make you feel very satisfied, but what are these things in the final analysis?"

Liu Yifei looked at her grandmother's inquiring gaze and thought quickly in her heart.

"Well, it's a sense of accomplishment."

Grandma smiled and nodded, then shook her head again.

Now Liu Yifei was confused, and she didn't know what grandma meant.

Grandma guided her with a smile.

"Sissi, think about it, how would you feel when you have a sense of accomplishment?"

How will it feel?

"Well, it's going to feel happy, happy."

"yes, so what?"

"Grandma, what you want to say is that these are essentially the pursuit of happiness."

Grandma smiled and nodded.

Liu Yifei thought about it and understood a little that Maslow's five levels of human needs, she had read, physiological needs, security needs, belonging and love needs, respect needs and finally psychological needs.

What Grandma is talking about is the highest level of psychological needs.

And happiness is undoubtedly one of the core needs of human psychology.

Grandma held Liu Yifei's hand, her eyes gradually drifted away, and she said as if she was emotional:

"Nowadays, the society is developing rapidly, and life is getting better and better, and I am dazzled by all kinds of clothes, cosmetics, and famous brands."

"If the career is successful, the income will be high, these things are at your fingertips, but correspondingly, the pressure at work, the accumulation of negative emotions, when a person is chasing these with one mind, she can still ensure a complete self, in the end, can she still be happy?"

Liu Yifei thought for a moment, then shook her head gently.

It doesn't seem like it's going to be happy.

Grandma turned back, smiled at Liu Yifei, and continued:

"Career and dreams are not bad, but don't put them first, when you reach the age of grandma, you will understand that for us women, these are just icing on the cake."

"Sissi, you are still young, and grandma wants you to be happy."

"The essence of our women's lives is kindness and softness. Our true happiness should come from our own hearts, and we should be naïve, curious, and as innocent as children. ”

"Learn to grow, only continuous growth can be confident, with self-confidence, will be independent, so that you can understand the meaning of life."

Listening to her grandmother's words, Liu Yifei somewhat understood.

Career and dreams are like the layer of cream on the cake, which looks sweet and beautiful, but eating too much will make the body fat, and eating less can taste the deliciousness and sweetness of the cake.

"Remember grandma's words, learn the mind of a big woman and the taste of a little woman."

"A woman must have a big heart, so that she can do things in this world and pursue her career and dreams."

"A woman's interest should be small, so that she can stay happy, innocent and cute, and never vicissitudes."

The background of the fairy sister in the article,The author is based on some existing information.,It's not apocryphal.,Of course, the authenticity can't be guaranteed.,I personally think it's a kind of credibility.。

I hope book friends don't dwell too much on this, just take it as the plot needs.

For those stars.

Personally, I think that as long as it is not a violation of national law and a moral deficit, there is no need to dwell too much on them, just remember their good side.

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