When people come out of childhood, they don't know what it's like to be young, they don't know what it's like to get married when they get married, and even when they enter old age, they don't know where to go: the old man is a child who doesn't know anything about old age. In this sense, the earth of man is the world of inexperience. – Milan Kundera

Every life process cannot be repeated, there is no rehearsal, and when it is finished, it is a freeze frame that cannot be changed. Some things seem to be as light as a feather when they happen, but in fact, our every move bears an unbearable burden of responsibility in the long river of life. Therefore, each of our choices bears a very heavy weight in our fate, which is of great significance and may affect the success or ups and downs, happiness or pain of life.

"Return, forgetting, kitsch, accident, necessity", even if life is only a process, no one can escape the question of the existence and value of life in the end.

Life only appears once, this one-time existence is fleeting, and the heaviness and pain experienced by the weight of life in pursuit of meaning and principle are relieved by the lightness of life at the end, often with an unbearable sense of lightness and floating.

Pursuit and pain

People's choice of life goals, judgment of the value of life and their sense of mismatch with themselves are one of the sources of suffering in life. People in the world are diligently pursuing their own goals, but as everyone knows, life is likely to become vulgar because of "pursuit", in the name of "pursuit", whether we are profligate or follow the rules, in the end we will only endlessly repeat our predecessors, and in the end there will only be two words left - kitsch.

The good things in the world are not strong, and the colored clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is broken. Life is too light to bear, as light as a feather, as light as dust, involved in space, and will not be returned tomorrow. "Existence begins at every moment", the past no longer exists, the future has not yet come, only the present moment really exists, and any moment has already entrusted all the past and all the future. Perhaps, we only need to focus on the moment of existence, and hold on to life in the present.

Purity and watchfulness

The wind is uncertain, people are impermanent, life is like duckweed, gathering and scattering. The lightness of life may not mean the indulgence of one's own life, and in the process of indulgence, there will only be an emptiness that cannot be concealed. Perhaps being a lonely watchman and seeker, on the road of constantly seeking harmony between light and heavy, spirit and flesh, to obtain the purity of feelings, the satisfaction of life, and not lose it as a good life choice.