Imperfect victims

Note: A reader in the background said that my recent article was suspected of being a pile of literary algae, and the text was gorgeous but did not incorporate a sense of truth, and I humbly accepted criticism for this. It may be that the life experience is limited, or the self-perception is limited, and the road to writing is heavy and long.

Recently, I heard the term "imperfect victim", as the name suggests, to refer to those victims who have certain problems or faults in certain incidents. "Imperfect victims" tend to overemphasize their individual victimhood, see themselves as permanent victims, and are accustomed to shifting responsibility to others or society.

When a new word is created, it often creates a tendency to be abused. The maker of the 63-page PPT file explaining the derailment of a student at Xi'an University of Foreign Chinese has recently been pushed to the forefront of public opinion by the overwhelming voices and opinions on the Internet.

The expressions are different, but there are generally only the following two views:

1. The heroine in the incident has incorrect views and lacks a sense of morality.

2. Dig deep into the details of the love between the two, the male protagonist in the incident found a female college student to fall in love after work, and the love motives were not pure, so he could only be called an "imperfect victim".

While feeling the diversity of views and the vastly different ways of thinking, I would like to talk about the question of whether "imperfect victims" deserve to be protected.

It is important to note that the interactive nature of human society determines that we can be spectators or authorities in many things, and our roles must be constantly changing. Our attitudes towards social events will inevitably be reflected in ourselves in the end.

Objective facts are often intricately intertwined with human emotions, forming more complex causal connections, which leads to the existence of "imperfect victims". Recourse to the law is naturally the best way to be injured after being harmed, but the law may not be able to achieve 100% of the results desired by the victim, because what the law protects is the established facts that the law can determine.

It is not difficult to find that from the perspective of the overall development of human society, the progress of society is more important to require everyone to evaluate and self-examine their own behavior, face up to their own mistakes and shortcomings, and have the courage to take responsibility for their own behavior. This sense of responsibility and self-reflection is an important part of a person's growth and development, and they enable everyone to better adapt to their environment and solve problems. Only when everyone thinks and acts in this way can society be more just and equal.

Perhaps, the real moral consciousness of human beings should be imprisoned in the cage of the system, and the consciousness of the system should promote the continuous improvement of moral standards, so as to fundamentally promote social fairness to the greatest extent and reduce the tragedy of "she left suddenly, leaving not a word".