Chapter 15. In-laws in previous lives
The so-called "in-laws in previous lives" is to say that two people in different eras, perhaps returning to an earlier era, are actually husband and wife. But this kind of fatalistic argument is actually very difficult to prove. Because even I can pull a nice girl on the street and tell her that you were my in-laws in my previous life or something.
According to Da Mao's previous description of this female ghost, it is not difficult to see that it is a woman during the Republic of China. The duration of the Republic of China in mainland China was from 1912 to 1949 A.D., which lasted for thirty-seven years, that is, the woman died within these thirty-seven years, and even if she died at the earliest in 1912, as of the current position, if the person is still alive, she is almost sixty-four years old. From the previous understanding, we know that the mysterious person behind the scenes is relatively young, probably around thirty years old, so in other words, if this woman is really his "in-law in the previous life", this generational reincarnation is only about thirty years, which means that this person has just died in his previous life, and he will be reincarnated immediately.
Whether in Buddhism or Taoism, this statement is quite illogical. In principle, a person is counted from the time of death, and after forty-nine days, even if he can enter reincarnation, the specific time of entry is a person. In Buddhism's theory of reincarnation, two words are often added in front of reincarnation, which are called the "six paths". The so-called six realms are heaven, human, beast, hell, evil ghosts, and asuras, and any life that enters reincarnation after death depends on the dignity and humility of good and evil in the world.
To put it simply, it is generally believed that the kind of great monk who has made very great contributions and has made very outstanding achievements, so he can quickly enter the reincarnation, and this reincarnation is higher than the previous one, such as from humanity and directly into the heavenly path. The Heavenly Dao is the first of the six realms, which means that it has been ranked as a god and Buddha. But if a person has done all kinds of evil in his life, is cruel, has killed countless people, and the blame is inescapable, the time for this person to enter reincarnation after death will also be very fast, but on the contrary to the former, because the person should bear far more responsibility than one death, so after death, he still needs to be punished and atoned for, and will enter the path of hungry ghosts or hell. And ordinary people, who have neither great merit nor great faults, and live a mediocre life, the time of reincarnation is relatively long, but the place is not too bad.
In this way, since this female ghost is an in-law in a previous life, then the husband of this female ghost before his death should have about the same time as this female ghost. And if he is a great evildoer, he will never enter humanity in this life, so there is only one explanation, this person's previous life was actually a person of high moral integrity and great contribution to society.
So the contradiction comes out again, why would such a person die at a young age, and his wife died from a headshot?
So when Jama said this, the thoughts and logic quickly swirled through my mind, and I remained quite suspicious that perhaps the mysterious man behind the scenes had been tricked into making up a reason to deceive him, but as I said, all this could not be confirmed. So since Jiama Dan said so, I'll listen to it for the time being.
Jiama Dan went on to say that after hearing that this person had learned that his in-laws in his previous life were such a woman, he asked the person who told him where to look now, so that he could find his in-laws in his previous life and continue his previous relationship... When I heard this, I couldn't help but interrupt Jiama Dan and said, Brother Jiama... Wait a minute, what did you just say, and then continue the frontier? Jia Ma Dan's face was full of that kind of strange smile, and then said, yes, when I heard about it at the time, I was also taken aback, this person has a different path, how can he continue the front edge method. Later, when I listened to it, I learned that it was this person who heard that he had suffered an unfortunate accident at a young age, that his father was a soldier and died on the battlefield, and that his mother had given him to someone else, and that he had never known his whereabouts. So this person's childhood was basically spent in the lowest market. And the main reason for all this is because the in-laws in the previous life were not able to be reincarnated after their own reincarnation, and they are still lingering in the world today.
Jia Ma Dan said that although this person was born in the military, he was also convinced of these Xuanmen theories. So under the encouragement of others, he began to believe that he was from a humble background, and although he improved after joining the army, he is still alone. The man who told him this information said that if he continued like this, not only would he not die a good death. The only solution is to find this in-law in his previous life, and draw out his own marriage to renew the relationship with the female ghost, so that this female ghost can re-enter the reincarnation, and without the ties of the in-laws in the previous life, he will be able to turn around for the rest of his life.
When I heard this, I began to secretly feel that there was some truth. Regardless of whether this person was a great sage in his previous life or not, the person who advocated this theory really didn't lie, to be honest. However, he said it politely, using the term "in-laws in a previous life", but in fact, he was an unjust creditor.
The so-called "wronged relatives" refer to the wronged family and the in-laws, one is good and the other is bad, but no matter whether it is good or bad, if they are entangled with a living person, they can only have a negative impact. The other "creditor", which is even simpler to explain, is a person who has debts with this person in a previous life. It's just that there is a subdivision here, whether it is a debt collector or a debt repayment. What kind of debt, gambling debt? Love debt? Debt for human life? All of the above determines the severity of this kind of retribution. Generally speaking, being entangled by an unjust creditor is like making people beat up inexplicably and robbing them of their clothes and money, which is a sign of extreme bad luck.
Although this mysterious man behind the scenes is proud of his career, it is not difficult to show from the fact that he can control this place, and those disciplined guards. But he always cares about the life he has gone through before, and when he can't find the answer to "why is he so miserable", he will unconditionally believe a seemingly fateful statement handed to him by others.
Low self-esteem, or low self-esteem. Therefore, it is easy to judge that this person must not have been an outstanding person when he was young, and he has suffered hardships, and even often been bullied, or pressed him, stepped on him, and prevented him from coming out. When I am a little proud, I will try my best to prevent such a situation from happening in the future. After all, character determines fate, and in this person's opinion, it seems that his fate has been obstructed, all because of this woman in a green cheongsam, her "in-laws in her previous life".
As for what Jia Ma Dan said, "take out the soul and renew the front edge with it", it is actually not nonsense. First of all, judging from the woman's death, it was a shooting, which was a killing, that is, when the gunshot rang out to the woman's death, she was actually in an unprepared and terrified state. Because the cheongsam was a formal dress even back then, a dress only for rich women, if she knew that she would die today, she would definitely not wear it like this, and she would go with makeup. That is, she died suddenly, and with horror, there was also a strong unwillingness. The ghosts formed in this way are the type of ghosts that are relatively easy to turn into bardo bodies, but they are by no means unable to enter reincarnation. Most people who are not suicidal want to enter reincarnation, in fact, it is only a matter of time, depending on when they will wake up, as the saying goes, "die early and live early", this is the truth.
As for why this woman has been around for so many decades and still refuses to leave, and is so entangled with her "in-laws" that she has extended this misfortune to the next reincarnation of the other party - I mean, if all this that Jiama told me is true. Then there may be several possibilities, first, she loves each other too deeply, and she doesn't want to enter reincarnation and forget this love. Frankly, I don't believe that there is such a fierce love, that it hurts each other. The second is that her own death is more or less related to this person she loves so much, that she can't let go of it in her heart, and wants to ask for an answer, or revenge. If it's the answer, I believe there are many ways to do it, and the best way is not to pester the other person for decades, but if it's revenge, then there's probably only one scenario:
Either this person was betrayed in his previous life and killed her. Either this person killed her with his own hands in his previous life.